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My In-laws are great with the hoarding, my father in law went throughout the house recently and threw everything away that wasn’t needed. I mean he through all of my wives old barbies away too, and she was devastated because she wanted them for when we had a kid, which is now. The bad part is that after he found out how devastated she was about the barbies he started asking her about the stuff before he through it away and now my wife is becoming a hoarder. My parents aren’t hoarders either which is good.
@Copa “Even if you think gifting someone bath items is silly, who cares? It’ll cost you like $15, and it would probably make her very happy to get a gift that she ACTUALLY wants and isn’t repurposed from your bathroom. ”
You think so, but where do you think she is going to get the bubble bath from! She’s going to bring her in the bathroom again, and have her pick a half used tube right from tub!
Ok so read the replies, and oh man grandma! 20 pieces of Art! You think because your husband put his heart and soul into something it makes a good gift? That only works if he put his heart and soul into making something specifically for somebody. I put my heart and soul into a lot of things nobody would ever want! Your poor husband too! You’ve been trying to pawn off his art as unwanted gifts to everyone, and he probably feels like shit when your son has to return them. Get her the friggin bubble bath for her birthday and something off of her damn registry!
Now your son and daughter have nothing to show from you and your husband in their house that is useful to them. It sounds like you owe her a lot of gifts, thank god she is kind and respectful, and doesn’t actually want much or anything from you. You should be lucky to have such a thoughtful daughter in-law, and she is lucky she has a guy that sticks up to his parents. This is honestly the type of thing that could break up a marriage if they didn’t work so well together!
Sorry for all of the ranting you are probably a wonderful woman. You sound like the type that gets in everyone’s business but legitimately thinks you are helping.
Haven’t read all of the replies yet, but it seems like you hate her. You keep forcing left over art that nobody else wanted on her for every special occasion in her life. “hey dear your special day is coming up, come over and pick out a piece of poop particle art that we can wrap up and pretend it’s a big surprise in front of everyone”. You can’t really think that your husbands art is so special that she would want to cover every square inch of wall space in her house with it can you? I’m going to hang a couple of my paintbar art pieces in my bathroom and invite my mom over next week for her birthday and let her pick one out.
I’m not talking about the fact that you can’t talk to somebody as being dramatic, I’m talking about the part where you went all “well I guess I’ll just pick up my ball and go home because nobody cares about me” You went all dramatic when you said you ” i’ll just walk away and mind working my own muscles Lol ???? And search for my true love elsewhere…! ????” Like seriously, you got like a hundred responses telling you how to gently approach this girl, and you response is a whoa is me you guys are right, I’ll never talk to her again?
“Because i’m not a super confident guy with a sharp tongue, and i simply don’t know how to deal with these sort of situations, i’ll just walk away and mind working my own muscles Lol ???? And search for my true love elsewhere…! ????
Thanks, everyone. It was interesting ”
Now your just being dramatic with us, you got tons of good advice on how to start a simple conversation with her.
Maybe if you offer him $7,000 he will move to your city for a determined amount of time?
I wonder if she is looking at him because he wont stop looking at her? Like maybe she is like WTF is Eric looking at me! Again!
This can’t be that hard! I wouldn’t ever think of going up to somebody who I caught glancing at me and being like “Hey I saw you sneaking a peek at the goods, are you interested?” I mean how is that an option? Isn’t the only option, to just sneak in a hello next time you see her, and see where it goes from there? I feel yeah, for the longest time the opposite sex was frightening for me to start a conversation with out of the blue, but believe me once you start it’s hard to stop.
I didn’t read all of the responses so sorry if it’s all repeats, but this guy doesn’t really care that much for you. He puts himself so far above you that it’s sad that you want to stay with him. He asked you to put your future, and education on hold for him, and in the end that wasn’t even good enough, because he is so much of a mama’s boy that he would rather move home to be with his parents instead of moving in with the girl he so called loves, so she can start her future that she put off for him to start his. So really he’s selfish, and likes his parent’s more than you is what it boils down to. Not even getting into his excuses about his lavish lifestyle he needs to live in to be with you.
It’s not a joke. He’s just scared so he is saying whatever he thinks is going to calm you down.
So I would say all of the crazy stuff you hear about is when someone hires a stripper for a personal party. I’ve seen some crazy things going on at those home parties, and things have gotten eaten out of the special spot, but it was all candy related. At the actual strip clubs, I know of some guys that go with just sweat pants, or those adidas swish pants on with no underwear so they can get off while getting a lap dance.
