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So I would say all of the crazy stuff you hear about is when someone hires a stripper for a personal party. I’ve seen some crazy things going on at those home parties, and things have gotten eaten out of the special spot, but it was all candy related. At the actual strip clubs, I know of some guys that go with just sweat pants, or those adidas swish pants on with no underwear so they can get off while getting a lap dance.
but cowards, who aren’t cowardly because they don’t like their partner’s (non-abusive) reaction. Aren’t deal-breakers for you? So basically just a regular coward you are good with?
I get it, I mean feel like cheaters are deal-breakers for me, but only if they don’t like my non-abusive reaction. But if they love my reaction, well that’s a different story. like “Debbie, I can’t believe you cheated on me, that hurts so much” and Debbie’s like “haha, that is such a sweet reaction, I love that you care so much that I cheated on you babe” and I’m like “Debs, you’re a fucking keeper, don’t know where I would be without you”
Not from NH, though we do have a family cottage in Holderness, on Squam lake. I’m from the great city of Braintree, MA. Well that’s were I reside now, I’m from a bit south of there.
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So any guy who is dating/married to a woman who doesn’t like strip clubs lies to her about strip clubs. He either lies about what went on, or if he even went. Any guy who’s dating/married to a woman who doesn’t mind strip clubs, always rats out the other guy, because he thinks since his wife/girlfriend is cool with it, they all are!
This guy being a champagne room type guy is still probably leaving a lot details out about what has happened, or is going to happen.
Mrs. Gunderson, our grade school teacher, oh, she was the nicest woman you’d ever want to meet, but as the years went by, she got her facts a little confused. In biology class she started telling kids that the human body was made up of 80% Ovaltine. While we were studying WWI, she told us mustard gas was something you got from eating too many hot dogs. That’s why to this day in St. Olaf, everyone celebrates the fourth of july with a thin omelet on a bun.
Yeah I’m with Essie, I would say my reply goes only from the information provided, and I do think if we were to hear what actually happened, and some back story with the relationship, and past instances of something like this happening I maybe wouldn’t be so harsh. But I can only go by what has been written here.
I mean after reading the initial post, I wasn’t sure what to say, I mean you didn’t give really any good context on what happened, I mean you hung up on him, and hadn’t talked to him sense. I seriously thought that maybe you guys were in your 20’s because of how childish this whole thing sounds. But now I kind of feel bad for this guy, I’m guessing he gets a lot of crap like this, where you’re upset with him, and don’t tell him why. It just sounds like he probably puts up with a lot, it sounds like his girlfriend is super childish, and sulks anytime something goes wrong. Now this is just my opinion from what I read, but yeah you’re a grown up who through a tantrum, and wants to break it off with you boyfriend of 2.5 years because he doesn’t know why you are upset because you never told him.
So why did you get married, or stick around for 7 years? Just trying to put yourself through misery? Seriously it was that big of a deal you never should have made it this far.
You need a different therapist, because something like how much sex someone has doesn’t determine how grown up they are, or how much of a man one person is. This all on you my friend so either figure out away around it or go your separate ways, and have joint custody. Your next problem will be finding another girl who hasn’t slept with anyone yet, and then telling her that you have, and have a kid, so your values really won’t match up either.
It seems like it is already set to be a family heirloom, I mean she told you already you are getting it when she dies (or did you assume she meant all jewelry, and not everything but that?). You are just trying force it to be yours instead of you giving it to your kids.
I mean if she knows you are that serious with your SO, do you think she would have offered it? Also, it’s your mom, even if she has a month to think about it, she isn’t going to find a way to say no even if she wants to, so you would definitely get it, even if she doesn’t want to give it to you.
Maybe you should ask his friends how he feels about you. They seem to be the only ones who know.
You seem to always be putting a really big emphasis on how great his huge friends list, and how all of his friends say you guys are great, and his friends say he hasn’t dated anyone it over 10 years, and his friends say you are the only person he has opened his heart too, oh duh his friends totally new you should have been dating forever.
I mean it seems like he tells his friends plenty of things, and opens his heart to them, it seems like you both live through his friends. I know it probably isn’t true, but it sounds like you guys communicate through them, and when he’s not around you hang out with his friends, because it makes you feel like you are with him or something.
I think the only problem now is the fact that it sounds like you are resenting your wife because you can’t go to the wedding. You say you that you think she is being unreasonable, and it makes you sad that you are missing the wedding, and it sounds like you are getting peer-pressure from your family to go. So I guess I kind of feel bad for your wife when she doesn’t have the baby that weekend, and you mope around the house because you could have been at the wedding instead.
It is silly that you think that because her parents are going to be ready to go that it’s ok if you happen to miss the birth, so it does sound like that you are only going to not rock the boat, but if had the chance would rather be at the wedding.
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