Hazel
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Fyodor probably same.(sure your face is lovely/fine, like mine, most human faces are perfectly nice -I am super ancient and look like a friendly scone.) Have observed some of my most beautiful friends have been very upset about the whole mask thing.I wonder if their experience of the world has become different? I’ve never thought being really beautiful was an unmitigated boon but I suppose it does have its benefits and they may be missed.
And BGM damn; working in the arts sucks right now, everyone knows we artists are desperate so they offer us minnow-feed, despite having survived all this on the arts (can you imagine if there had been no media,no books to read, no netflix etc??
No arts, no music? Ungrateful wretches.They don’t deserve us.that said I agree with those who are going without masks in outdoor settings with suitable distances, that seems pretty low risk and most people round me are very nice about keeping a wee distance. I’m rural though, so not sure how it is in urban areas.
hfantods I admit it, I like the mask too! I haven’t had a single stinking cold all year, also I can eat as much garlic as i like (which is lots) and I find that fellow mask wearers are even more friendly than I would usually encounter; it’s surprisingly easy to tell when people are smiling at you, which strangers in shops are doing more than usual. There’s some kind of solidarity going on and I like it.
I’m cool with still wearing my mask, a lot of people still not vaccinated and I want them to feel safe.I reckon that here in the UK we are cruising for a massive third wave (from variant first noted in India though who knows where it originated) but I hope I’m wrong.Government is determined to get the economy going and I can see their point but think caution is required.
Hi and just wanted to repeat that you not dating during the pandemic shows great good sense and not any kind of failure. Glad you were able to enjoy some of the light shows and parades from the safety of your car. It just occurred to me, that you really do seem to have a love for these shows, do you think when the pandemic slowly draws to a close and these events begin again, it might be worthwhile looking into volunteering (I’m sure they need stewards and so forth,( or there may be a design committee seeking feedback from audiences) – could even be paid work,) so you can meet up with other people who share this enthusiasm? Not saying you’ll find a match there, but every person you meet knows a whole lot of other people, some of whom may be single and looking.
This will not be good for you, and it will not be good for her, and it would not be good for your partner. It’s fine to make other plans, that’s what you ought to do for all 3 of you.
This sounds very unsatisfactory, I reckon it wouldn’t hurt to go to couple’s counselling if you think it could be saved. Are you very young? I’d say time to see if you have something worth saving and it may be that outside help might make it clearer.Mismatched sexual needs can be overcome if that’s the only thing and there is no shame in owning what you want/don’t want, but you definitely need to find a way to communicate better.
Sounds like you have loyalty and commitment to an idea, somewhere the right people/opportunity will give you value for this. Whatever you loved about this one, take to the next better thing. So sorry about your friend, though- he should have kept you in the loop and you could have worked something out but he didn’t, so he loses you.He’s the one who lost out here. Shop owner just wanted his assets clear -it would have been good if he could have been more transparent but I expect he was just trying to get the best deal and move on.Good luck, I suspect you will succeed.
If you are happy to look at dating a single mother as you have said, then there is no dilemma. You don’t need to go looking for a much younger woman, and you don’t need to miss out on being a father, just work hard at finding the right woman your own age who happens to already have kids, and earn the right to eventually take on a fathering role. Problem sorted.
you say that you having a relationship with a single mother has been discussed, but I think it has been dismissed. There are many women out there, of your age, with children, and I think at your age it really is the most realistic way to go. Are you genuinely open to this or are you fixated on furthering your genes?
why not look for a partner your own age who already has children? If it is genuinely being a parent that you want, it shouldn’t matter whether the children are biologically yours or not.Obviously it would take a long time for any prospective partner to decide that you would be suitable for a parental role towards their children but if all goes well wouldn’t that be a reasonable solution? Failing that, look into adoption, there are lots of children in the care system and being single isn’t the barrier towards adoption that it used to be.
