juliecatharine
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Yeah frigid divorcees are all the rage with 40 somethings. ?
I’m going to Gull Lake in MN next week. I’m jealous you get to spend a month there BGM!
She stopped initiating sex because she wasn’t into it BEFORE they got married without ever telling him what the issue was until it was dragged out of her in therapy years later. Health was never her concern and it’s completely disingenuous to pretend it is now that she’s been called out.
Drugs + Crime + Jail + Inability To Pay Child Support + Disregard For 3 Year Old’s Well-being = Lowlife Family
Nothing you’ve written takes accountability for the way your sons turned out. You show not an ounce of empathy for the woman raising your grandchild and not the slightest concern about this little girl. It’s all about you and your deadbeat son.
I do wonder where she ranks now since she says she *was* thin and pretty. When looks are your main selling point you’re (not getting) screwed later in life. She’s going to be dating a lot of older dudes. I wonder how many positions they’ll be busting out…?
I don’t see this as good news at all. Every single post is about you and your sons. You don’t seem to give a crap about this little girl beyond what paternity can offer *you*.
Oh please she isn’t concerned about his health. She met and married him this way. She’s not attracted to him, never was—that’s the problem.
You mislead him and you did rob him of the chance to someone who wants to fuck him as-is. Why on earth would you marry someone you don’t want to have sex with? Why would you have a child with him? This relationship is broken and has been for a long time. I can’t imagine therapy is going to make him get over the fact that you’re not sexually attracted to him. Use your time in counseling to focus on how you’re going to co-parent together.
She probably is after the social security. So what? She’s raising your granddaughter and kids aren’t cheap. Tiffani, I cannot imagine the pain of losing a child. The pain is surely overwhelming but it seems to have made you blind. Your blood is boiling because she robbed you of knowing about this child? You have no right to this child. Zero. The sliver of opportunity you have is going to vanish if you don’t let this go. You seem to be twisting yourself in knots to lay blame on this woman. Why? Your sons both slept with her within a few weeks. We know the problems your living son has with drugs and crime. Was your other son similarly troubled? Obviously he had something going on. Can you really blame her for staying away from that? Your living son can’t pay child support and clearly doesn’t want to. Could your deceased son have done better? Did either of them have positive qualities or material support to offer a baby? I would be grateful for that social security. It’s giving financial assistance exactly as it’s meant to. Definitely seek therapy. There’s no shame in talking through your pain. I hope you find some peace because you would be well advised to let this issue go.
Omfg NO. This is not a situation when you fight for love. You have no idea how many women write in with slight variations of this story. Every single time their boyfriend claims it was a one night stand that resulted in the pregnancy. Every.Single.One. If that sounds like an amazing coincidence isn’t—lying stupid cheaters are all the same and they all come up with the same bullshit lines. Girl, you are in med school headed for a successful life. Leave this dirt bag behind you. This isn’t love, it is fear of moving on. Love doesn’t result in cognitive dissonance, at all. When you are in a loving healthy relationship you feel safe and peaceful, not sick and like you are battling something. I wasted years of my life on a cheater, it isn’t worth it. Value yourself more.
You’re just a gross person. Have fun being some geriatric loser’s punching bag.
I cannot stand women who cozy up to a man and resent the attention and resources he gives his children. No wonder she thinks you suck. You’re a girlfriend of two years and you believe you should outrank his daughter? Gross.
Neither of you have the ability to fight fair. MOA and next time don’t date someone with children.
