Kate
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Or pint glass, his choice.
He gets a free DDWKS bracelet
@KTFran, you can now buy the DDWKS bracelet in my Etsy shop. Wait for it to be featured on Wendy’s Weekly Picks.
First of all, Julie is not a moderator. Second, since when is criticism not helpful? If someone isn’t doing a good job, it’s helpful for others to tell them that. Third, ok bye.
Like what do you think I’m gonna do if someone says, “DDWKS?” File an official report that I was disagreed with on the Internet?
Dear anita:
I think Wendy’s post very clearly states what’s involved in my volunteer role, and that any opinions I state are my own.
Re: your second question: Sure, have at it. Other readers certainly have.
Kate.
* Dear anita:
Here’s the clarification you seek:
http://dearwendy.com/housekeeping-forum-moderation-etc/
It’s my personal opinion that the advice you gave this particular poster was not good. Demanding honesty and clarity from someone you cuddled with a few times and who stated that they’re not interested in anything further is inappropriate.
kateYeah, no, this is not good advice:
“I suggest that you aim at getting honest information from her. Ask her what you need to know in such a way that will increase the chances that she will answer honestly. Let her know in your tone of voice and words you choose, that she is safe telling you her truth.
And be truthful with her. Who knows, maybe that will be so refreshing to her, so unusual in her experience, that she will become very interested in you, feeling closer to you.”
Do not follow up on this and try to get her to tell you some kind of “truth.” That’s intrusive and not appropriate in this situation. Leave it.
she responded with: “im sorry, i can’t give you what you want”. That was the last time we saw each other, about a week ago.
She doesn’t necessarily think you’re in love with her, but she doesn’t want a physical relationship with you. She knows she’s not interested in having sex with you, and cuddling probably lost its appeal once she realized she’s not interested.
Instead of trying to strategize or play games to get her to reconsider, you need to respect her decision and move on.
A 67-year-old MAN. But if you go back and read it, the “voice” is actually exactly the same, and the use of certain words (like “humility” in this case, which was used oddly) is repeated. I don’t think she has something like MPD. I think she’s disturbed for sure, and bored, but the various characters are just part of the trolling. They aren’t personalities.
Also, when you see random people who’ve never commented before suddenly jump in and defend someone, that’s a tip-off. It’s not just “Mimosa” who does that.
The ball is in your court to delete his message and not give him another thought.
I’m back from vacation, bitches!!!
