Kate
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I’m actually not following either.
She can find her own mental health help.
I know who she is.
here it is
(Return of the Mim) hold on
(Return of the Mim) don’t you know
(You know that I’ll be back) here I go
(Return of the Mim) oh little girlAnd, good night. I’m just on vacation, dears, not in a facility yet.
Thank you, Tara. I think I’ve been reading this site and monitoring my own damn mental health long enough to know when someone isn’t okay.
Not for nothing, but all “three of them” happen to be from the same city as a historical troll.
Hahaha, Hans is the same person as Christina and Shelby, love it.
Ok “Christina.” Lol.
To put it another way, a guy on the street telling you you’re beautiful is simply saying what he thinks will get you to talk to him. He may or may not even think you’re beautiful, he is just trying to get your attention.
There’s a guy on the street in Boston who always says something like, are you afraid to shake a black person’s hand?? EVERYONE takes it personally and tries to prove they’re not racist so they stop and talk to him. I fell for it once, but since then I’ve seen him a dozen times, saying it to literally everyone. I told him to cut the shit and stop saying that, as it’s really rude, and now he doesn’t say it to me. I’m not saying do this to catcallers, the point is just, these people are trying to get ANYONE’s attention, and “you’re beautiful” is just a tactic.
It doesn’t matter what you look like, I’m telling you… I mean, yeah, maybe you get a higher volume of shit if your boobs are out, but you don’t have to be hot or dressed sexy. We all get it in sweats, no makeup, glasses, shapeless coats.
Yeah… “you’re beautiful” can be a compliment, but when it comes from a random guy on the street it’s just another, albeit less vulgar, way to aggressively claim your attention and patronize you. I don’t give a fuck if some rando sitting on a stool outside the convenience store thinks I’m beautiful. Please keep your comments about my physical appearance to yourself, unless you’re some lady in the bathroom complimenting my boots or my hairstyle. Then I assume, ok, you’d like to have similar boots or hairstyle, so I say where I got them or that I saw a tutorial on YouTube. You’re not trying to capture my attention so you can try to achieve some patriarchal sexual claim on me. PS, I’m NOT beautiful and I get that pretty regularly. It’s meaingless.
