Kate
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I don’t think weed is that bad of a drug, but wtf with smoking in the morning before work? If you go to work high, someone is eventually going to give you a drug test and fire you. Or does he not work? If not, what are his prospects of finding work if he’s high all day AND may get a drug test where he applies?
I know people are going to say it’s just weed and you should be more relaxed about it, but it’s his behavior about it that’s really problematic.
Couple questions: is weed legal in your state? Could he get drug tested at work and lose his job? Is he smoking every day before work?? If he could get fired for this, that would fuck you up. Not fair.
I know someone who got married a year ago and is already getting a divorce because her husband, a first responder, no less, was addicted to some kind of opiates and had been hiding it from her for years. She found out after he got fired. She stuck it out for a while but he wasn’t going to kick it. I think she did the right thing.
Your husband is an addict, and this is classic addict behavior and very concerning. Definitely go talk to an addiction counselor by yourself and figure out what to do.
Oh, his dad is Jewish, so idk…
He looks 19, white, and clean cut. So yeah, bring him on!
I’m glad someone said it.
And actually also twice about his race.
Twice. That he was ugly.
HAVE you been to clubs?
I think it is normal and acceptable, @Northern Star, absolutely.
Then why did she decide to “try to stay sober?”
Northern Star, have you been to clubs? That is pretty standard. Even in New Hampshire in 1993. And the staff would pressure you to put on an unwashed bikini and participate in the swimsuit contest, and you’d say, “no, thank you, maybe another time.”
Wendy would probably tell Joanie some variation of what she told this LW, with less of a tone because racism would be unlikely to be a factor.
