Kate
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Actually, no, I think your anxiety seems normal and warranted. And at this point with the vaccine available to all, ffs, moms giving birth should not have to wear masks.
People who are against the vaccine and masks at this point are terrible people. They absolutely lie – These are the assholes like my former friend who was bragging that she and her husband never wore masks (early on in the pandemic this was) to the grocery store, and told me I didn’t have to either, I could just show a fake card downloaded from the internet that said I was disabled.
These people buy fake vaccine cards. Probably some of them are brazen enough to lie to their employers too, so even though work is supposed to be for vaccinated people only, I’m sure it’s not.
I think most of us are very angry at these selfish pieces of shit. I do not understand how these people don’t get that there are things you have to do for the greater societal good if you want to live in society, and can only conclude that they are driven by political motivations based on racism, xenophobia, misogyny, white supremacy. The folks they follow on social media are obviously racist, transphobic, and all that good stuff.
So yeah, be angry! I might feel that your anxiety is out of proportion to the risk, but others might say it isn’t. Maybe it’s just your maternal lizard brain trying to protect your baby.
She’s a rotten person. Anyone who tells her boyfriend he’s bad at sex so she slept with her ex is just a complete asshole. And has contempt for you. Also I sincerely hope you were paraphrasing her above and that’s not a copy/paste from a text.
The way to get good at sex is have sex with different people. And find someone you really click with physically.
do people think open relationships can work after work is put in to rebuild trust, and create some sort of agreement?
No!
You really really need to break up with her. You two are not a match.
You deserve to be with someone who makes you feel sure every day that they love you and you’re their first choice. That’s not bullshit. It’s kind of the minimum. If you’re in a relationship where you don’t feel loved, don’t feel like their top priority, and they’ve cheated, that is not the right relationship, and you should move on.
I think most likely, she loves you, but doesn’t love / care about / respect you *enough* to stay loyal. Again, if she was telling you this was a huge mistake and she can’t believe she did it, and never will again, that’s at least a positive sign that she feels horrible about it and it’s a one-time mistake. But that’s not really the message she seems to be sending. Do you really trust her? Would you feel the urge to look through her phone? Would you worry if she was out without you?
I don’t really think there has to be a pre-existing reason. They feel a certain way in the moment when the opportunity presents itself, and they go for it. In that moment, their partner isn’t that important.
You keep asking doesn’t there need to be a reason… what makes you ask that? What do you want to hear that the reason is?
I have cheated on boyfriends in the past, but I would never cheat on my husband. I’m more mature, yes, but also I would never do anything to mess up this relationship or hurt him.
Not necessarily.
I think, and I could be wrong, that people who do this just don’t value their rrelationship / respect their partner enough not to cheat. It’s selfish.
Or just like Copa said, the opportunity is there.
It’s not a great sign that she is not like, “I love you so much and this was a huge mistake, what can I do to rebuild trust?” Even if that was her stance, there’s no guarantee that you two could find your way back.
Why do you believe she fell out of love with you?
