KatieKat

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  • April 28, 2022 at 4:48 pm #1108955

    I will see how I handle it, depending on what the situation looks like.

    April 28, 2022 at 4:35 pm #1108952

    I feel that my primary goal at the moment is to “get physical” with him, and then I will see if anything else happens after that.

    I do however want to approach him in a way that doesn’t come off as too “loose”, so that is why I was thinking of flirting with him in a way that was sensual and alluring but would still look decent to other people around us as well.
    I guess maybe some cute and subtly alluring clothes, flirty and sensual voice tone, and things like that, haha.

    I am definitely gonna try to hit on him tomorrow, either way, if I see him.

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    April 28, 2022 at 1:27 pm #1108948

    Well, he has given me the impression that he is a decent person as well;
    I haven’t noticed anything about him that makes him less attractive in any way.
    He seems to formulate himself well, and seems to be very focused during school work and very good at communicating with people and things like that, at least based on what I have seen of him during our classes together since I noticed him for the first time during the beginning of this semester about 4 months ago.

    I also feel like he would probably be really good in bed if he has frequent meetings with girls, and hasn’t seemed to have got any bad reputation in any way.

    April 28, 2022 at 12:34 pm #1108943

    Haha, well, I think I will approach him a little bit in both ways, if I see him tomorrow;
    what I mean about that is that I will try to act as flirty and sensual towards him as I can while at the same time keeping it at a level that would be acceptable if other people heard us talking.

    I will think of a few ways to seduce him until tomorrow, and I will see where it goes, haha.

    April 28, 2022 at 12:09 pm #1108939

    I guess I am overthinking this situation;
    I will try to avoid doing that.

    I do think that I am open for just having a hook-up with him;
    I don’t know him yet, so I have of course not got any actual feelings for him.

    However, I have never approached a guy from a direct sexual perspective like that – my previous dates have started with a lot of small talk for several days and sometimes weeks, and then just become more intimate kind of automatically, so I am not quite sure how to approach this guy if I am planning on a more physical meeting right away.
    I am not sure if it would be a good idea to walk up to him in a low-cut blouse or whatever and immediately ask him if we will have sex, but maybe…?

    April 27, 2022 at 6:47 pm #1108921

    I guess the simplest way to put it is that I would enjoy whatever I got out of this.
    If I didn’t end up liking his personality, but still found him to be a decent person, then I would still definitely enjoy having sex with him, and then if things happened to become more serious after that point, then that would be really great as well.

    I have heard that some popular guys apparently have casual sex with several of their admirers, so that they rotate between them.
    I am not sure how common it is for guys to do that, and I am not sure if this guy at my school does any of that, but I guess I wouldn’t have too much trouble with that if we only had purely physical meetings.

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    April 27, 2022 at 5:12 pm #1108917

    Yes, I guess this is one reason why I haven’t approached him yet;
    I feel like I would ruin some more meaningful chances with him if I just went the “hey there gorgeous, let’s have sex” route, like the other girls seem to do.

    April 27, 2022 at 4:38 pm #1108914

    Hopefully I will end up liking him as a person as well.
    I have got the impression that the other girls are mostly focused on his looks, and there might be a possibility that he is a bit bored of that.

    April 27, 2022 at 3:31 pm #1108912

    Yes, I will try that on Friday if I see him.
    It would feel really great if we actually did get a flirty connection, so I feel that it is worth a try.

    April 27, 2022 at 3:08 pm #1108910

    Yes, I do realise that I should talk to him like any other person;
    it just feels like it will be tricky since he has all of those options and a lot of girls have no doubt tried to make the best possible impression in front of him, but I will make sure to keep in mind that I should treat him like any other person.

    Hopefully I will find an opportunity to talk to him alone, without any other girls trying to distract him.

    April 27, 2022 at 1:06 pm #1108903

    I guess so, especially given that he is exceptionally hot to a degree that he really gets all the attention.
    It always amazes me a bit how easy it is for him – girls can walk up to him out of nowhere and ask him for dates with a lot of excitement, or sit down close next to him and start flirting, or walk into him a little bit when they pass him, or just stare at him and wink at him and things like that, and it just keeps going on like that, at least from what I have seen when I have noticed him.
    It seems like it would be very tough to have a relationship with him, but I still want to see how far I can get with him if I approach him.

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    April 27, 2022 at 12:51 pm #1108899

    Yes, I have to avoid that, since I realise that I would be one in the bunch if I acted like the other girls.

    I will try to start a few normal conversations with him next time I see him – hopefully on Friday – and then I will see how that feels, and if he seems interested back.

    I am also not sure how he feels about those other girls;
    I have noticed that he always looks delighted – like he is constantly thinking “wow, I love this” – so I guess he thinks that it is a huge rush to constantly get all this attention.
    But maybe he also feels a bit bored of that, possibly.

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