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He says that it is his intention to do this on his own to make me proud.
Exactly. Why would you stay with a guy who did this?
Why are you in a relationship that leaves you feeling sad and sorry for yourself?
It’s really sad to me that you are trying to justify his behavior and dismissing all your feelings. You should break up with him and look for a therapist.Even supposing all those things were innocent, he needs to go on a no holds barred vacation to be certain of a future with you. WTF. That’s not a guy to be certain about. Not to mention, how could you be certain of him when he plans two week long vacations without telling you, staying with a woman he met online? He made this conundrum up for you to break up with him.
This isn’t a spiritual quest. This is a single man partying with a strange new woman quest.
OMG. And you believe this?
Why did he keep this all from you?
Do you want to be in a relationship where your bf plans weeks long vacations with another woman and doesn’t tell you about it and you are left feeling sad and sorry for yourself?
I think you should go relive your single and carefree days, too. Permanently.
He’s going to relive his single days and planned a two week vacation in a destination you’ve always wanted to go to, alone.
Why are you in a relationship that leaves you feeling like shit?
He kept this from you because it was easier and he wanted to have it all planned out and set in stone before you found out/he told you.
I truly don’t understand why you’d stay with a guy like this.
Why are you in a relationship that always leaves you feeling hurt and sorry for yourself?
I think he wants you to break up with him.
You are the worst.
Newsflash: he’s doing poorly under your “care.” So your methods, the abuse you grew up with- aren’t helping him.
If you don’t want your son eating junk food, don’t keep it in the house.
Nothing you’ve said makes screaming at him morning and night even seem slightly understandable.
I highly, highly doubt you are a scientist. You honestly sound like a psychopath. Get help. Please.
You come across so cold and unloving. You realize you’re his only parent, right?
If you scream at your son morning and night, I’m not surprised he turns to food for comfort.
You need therapy.
Get an electronic door lock.
Some non parents can understand.
I just think it’s funny that you take offense to that, but call yourself a second mommy.Wait, saying a non parent can’t understand is a big no-no but being self proclaimed “second mommy” seems okay to you? That’s funny. I bet your sister loves that.
Actually, Charlie, that doesn’t sound very reasonable. A 14 year old- when you bar him from snacks…
You just make them that much more appealing. If this is seriously your son’s huge problem, that you scream at him about- you’ve got it really fucking good. He forgets to lock the door…so that deserves screaming? You are a real piece of work.You wrote you only have 3 1/2 more years with him. I hope you don’t throw that in his face.
It’s honestly disgusting and shocking that this is what the problem is. That your EX FIANCÉ blamed his cold feet on your son and you believe it and are probably taking it out on him. You need help. I feel sorry for your son.
If you are SO HAPPY in this relationship, and it’s so healthy- why are you writing into an advice site on how to successfully convince him to marry you? He doesn’t want to. He’s never going to want to. Your son isn’t the problem.
You are going to regret teaming up with this man against your son. I don’t think you can comprehend the damage you are doing to your son.
