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Fun @ver! I’m glad you’re enjoying these dates!
I’m totally gross.
Oh yes, @kare. I don’t know what that is either. I’m lame.
Ooh, nice @ver! Have fun!!!!
I missed the Happy Birthday to this thread. So. HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY TO THE ULTIMATE DATING THREAD!
@missdre, I’m sorry things didn’t work out. That sucks. Sending you good thougts.@kmt, I think light is good right now. Take some time and have lots and lots of fun.
@ver, I’m happy you’re dating and enjoying dating. That’s what it should be. Good luck!
@cleo, I do think it’s inconsiderate for a FWB to flirt with someone else in front of you. It’s really just bad form. But I also don’t think he did anything wrong, per se, if you two are allowed to date other people. I think if you want to continue a FWB situation with him or anyone, you should explicitly state behaviors you expect up front. This sounds like it’s new to both of you, so I’d chalk this up to still learning. Good luck.
Honestly, if you’re looking for no strings attached sex, it might be better to do so with someone you don’t spend a lot of time with outside of the bedroom. That way, the lines aren’t as easily blurred. Food for thought.
Alright, I’m all caught up from the last three pages. Things are going well with the guy. Damn, do I love him. GROSS!
I’m catching up on the last couple of pages… @stone, did the napkin guy contact you!?! I think it’s totally awesome that you did that.
My one year first date anniversary with the guy is the 19th!
I’m sorry Ver! I won’t be drinking coffee later, or smoking a cigarette, but you’re in my thoughts.
@MG… I wish I were in town! Headed home tonight for the middle’s sis’s baby shower. I suppose I should be there since I’m the hostess.
kmt – I totally understand! I often dreaded three day weekends when I didn’t have much going on. Especially because everyone is talking about their plans. To counter the “not being a couple” thing, I would talk to some friends, even couples, to see what was going on and score an invite. It sounds kind of awkward typing that out, but it never really was.
IDK, like three years ago, I had been single for a while but had a lot of girlfriends. Well… that was the year they all decided to up and move on me. Like, three or four within a six month time span. It sucked. I was talking to my married friend and her husband was working, but she was still going to his fam’s BBQ in the burbs. I went with her and had a blast.
Regardless, I totally feel you here. I don’t have any real plans yet… so get a hold of me if you want.
Guys. Today is the day the guy and I first made out after an evening boat ride on Lake Michigan…. and thus began our relationship. July 19 marks our first real date, but… today started it all!
It was two days before his birthday, so easy to remember. I sent a clever little birthday e-mail and apparently, it worked!
Hmm sararosie. I’m not sure what I would do. It might not hurt to send a hello text, but at this point, I’d kind of think he wasn’t interested.
When was the date?
If I had a good time and want to see the person again, I always text after a first date telling him I had a good time. I think it’s polite and now he knows I’m interested. If I don’t hear back, then I know it wasn’t a match. If I do, great! So basically, I agree with kmt and kate.
