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Copa, she probably wants you to know. She probably gets some kind of kick out of it. Definitely don’t do anything to let her know that it bothers you, or that you’ve even noticed. Just keep on movin’ on…
Do you have another date planned with this guy?
@Kate I’m really interested in what you’re doing with your new job! I specialize in digital advertising strategy, so I know all the ways that Facebook owns people and while it’s a bit creepy, it’s also fascinating and amazing for creating a targeting strategy 🙂 I’m on LinkedIn if you’re ever interested in connecting outside of DW.
Boyfriend just told me he’s taking me to Belfast for a weekend 🙂
Only 27 days til I head back to the UK! I just mailed him a care package of goodies and HOLY SH*T is it ever expensive to send international parcels! Yikes, won’t be doing that again any time soon.
@copa good for you! I have not been successful whatsoever lol. I’m really struggling with preparing meals.
Anyway, I just remembered a meal replacement shake that I actually like so I did that for breakfast this morning and it has definitely helped (so far haha).
I think I need to lose 15 lbs to be at the higher end of my comfortable weight range, although I’d settle for 10.
Oh yeah I forgot to count on that…. getting engaged after 6 weeks is a recipe for disaster (although I’m not sure if Copa was exaggerating to make a point lol).
LMAO yeah, that shit certainly didn’t work for me. Took me 2.5 years of being single, tindering, bumbling, POFing, coffee meets bageling, taking breaks, trying again, taking more breaks, repeat. Meeting my boyfriend was not because of any magical positivity formula, it was just dumb luck.
I read it a few years ago. I don’t remember a lot of it. I do believe to a certain extent that our attitudes, moods and emotions play a roll in the things that happen to us and around us, but I’m not really down with that whole “The Secret” power of positive thinking shit.
I don’t remember if it was Finding Your Half Orange or something else, but I vaguely remember this piece of advice about looking in the mirror and saying to yourself “Today is going to be the day I meet my partner!” and I felt like, 1) that’s inauthentic and 2) that’s just setting yourself up for disappointment.
And this time, don’t unblock him. Don’t fall into the trap of thinking you can be friends or even friendly. 100% zero contact ever.
I just went back and read my first post on this thread. I had to keep reading for like pages just to remember who the hell the guy even was lol.
I wish I could eat 1700 calories a day 🙁 Right now I am the heaviest I’ve been in close to 9 years. I seriously wish I could magically lose 15lbs, which would probably make a big difference on my small/short frame.
I have 6 weeks to do SOMETHING about it before I see my boyfriend again!
I find it interesting that you have a hard time finding guys who don’t want kids. Because I DO want kids and I usually make that quite clear. And pretty much every guy I’ve dated has been unsure. Their attitude on it is usually that they don’t really know if they want kids, maybe someday, maybe if they meet the right person.
