MissD
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I just went back and read my first post on this thread. I had to keep reading for like pages just to remember who the hell the guy even was lol.
I wish I could eat 1700 calories a day 🙁 Right now I am the heaviest I’ve been in close to 9 years. I seriously wish I could magically lose 15lbs, which would probably make a big difference on my small/short frame.
I have 6 weeks to do SOMETHING about it before I see my boyfriend again!
I find it interesting that you have a hard time finding guys who don’t want kids. Because I DO want kids and I usually make that quite clear. And pretty much every guy I’ve dated has been unsure. Their attitude on it is usually that they don’t really know if they want kids, maybe someday, maybe if they meet the right person.
@ktfran well I definitely don’t feel ready to start making plans to move yet. I’m really happy with the way things are going, but I also feel like it would be too soon for a bigger commitment. And for the record I don’t think that’s what he was asking me for. I think he was just checking in that we’re on the same page.
I told him that I was really happy that he’s planning to visit at Christmas and that we can check in with each other about our relationship at that time.
And of course, we’ve got our visit coming up in September 🙂 Another 10 days together!
@veritek GOOD! Don’t respond. He was completely rude and inconsiderate.
Ummmmm I can’t recall having that issue… but maybe that’s because on bumble the photo format is full screen and all my phone pics are already full screen.
I’m watching an episode of Frasier from the first season, like 1993 I think. Seems like all our dating woes are the same as they’ve always been and I can’t stop laughing.
“A lot of people, like Dre, are sure that they will get married once and once only, and it will be forever. They love that vision.”
Yep, what Kate said. Doesn’t mean I won’t change my mind or see life differently as I get older. But for now, this is how I feel what I hope for.
As for guys with children, I’m not ready for kids right now. Nor do I want to come second to somebody else’s kids right now (and the kids should always come first!) nor do I want to be forever tied to somebody’s ex.
As I get older, the pool of available men will change, and I may have to adjust my attitude. But for now, it’s pretty rare for guys in my age range to have been married or have kids, so it’s not an issue that comes up.
@Kate I think I was sort of curious about whether he’d tell me or not?? but you’re totally right I’ve kind of lost interest. I haven’t heard from him anyway.
I am one of those people who sees a distinction.
Hell no, unless the divorce is 100% finalized I’m not touching that with a 10 foot pole. Anyway, we haven’t even discussed a second date. So, we’ll see if he even asks me out again.
Ok thanks! I was interested in meeting again, but definitely not swept off my feet or anything. After Pilot Jones, I feel like I need to be vigilant.
