“After 40 Years, I Can’t Stand My Husband”
“I have been married 41 years and dated my husband for three years before our marriage. I am 60 years old and I am afraid to live on my own. “
“I have been married 41 years and dated my husband for three years before our marriage. I am 60 years old and I am afraid to live on my own. “
“We agreed we’re exclusive, but he says he’s not ready to deal with the pressures of a relationship and he can’t handle anything serious.”
“I have a great boyfriend of two years. We have an amazing time together and I am very satisfied. My one dilemma is his ex.”
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