“Should We Sign a Contract Before Moving In Together?”

I’ve been going out with my boyfriend for 6.5 years now. We’ve hit a couple road blocks, but we’ve gotten through everything and have a very strong relationship. Neither of us is keen on marriage in general, especially since we’re still pretty young, but we’ve been making other big steps lately, like moving in together, and we’ve talked about having a long-term future together. His parents are exceptionally well-off and are buying him a condo that we’re both going to live in. We’ve gone over this many times and we’re going to set up a system where I pay him equity into the condo, making me a part owner. Our condo search…

“I’m in Love with my Gay Best Friend!”

I’m in love with my gay best friend. He and I were very close and unfortunately I fell in love hard. We never messed around or anything but there was sexual tension on my behalf. We stopped talking because life got in the way and I can’t get over him. I told him I loved him and he hasn’t talked to me since. My friends think I’m crazy because I always get hit on but have no interest in other dudes. How do I move on? — In love with my Gay BFF   Maybe it’s safe for you to love your gay best friend because you know there’s no threat of…

“Did He Just Want Me For Sex?”

I met a great guy who was in town for a grad school internship. He is from the Midwest and I am on the East Coast. For about a month and a half we had a whirlwind romance. However, I noticed he never told me much about himself, never really opened up. Now he is back in school in the Midwest and we are about 1,000 miles apart. Before he left, I told him I wanted to continue the relationship if he wanted to. He just put his head down and didn’t say anything. I asked him what airports are near him, and he told me. After he was home for a…

“I Don’t Want to be His Baby Mama”

I am a single mother of 3-year-old boy. Two weeks back I met a guy who said he has two kids from different mothers, who would like to go out with me. I don’t know if I should give it a try or not; I’m scared that since he impregnated two women and didn’t marry them that he can still do the same to me. I asked him what his intentions were with me and he said he wants to marry me, but my doubt is I cannot start a family with a man who has two kids plus my own. — Not Lookin’ to be Baby Mama #3  

“My Girlfriend’s Spending All Her Time with An Older Man”

My girlfriend and I got separated by circumstance. I was living with her on the west coast and we had a very passionate relationship. Then, I got into grad school, and had to move back east. She wanted to come with me, but she has another year of undergrad left. We had a very painful couple of months and ended up “separated.” She has since come to visit and we kind of decided we want to try and make it work. However, she spends a majority of her time with a much older man (like 30 years older) who she has said is romantically interested in her, but she claims nothing is…

Quickies: “My Fiancé is a Terrible Kisser”

My fiancé is a wonderful man and our relationship is amazing in every way, except for one thing: kissing during foreplay and sex. It’s really strange, because my fiancé is a great kisser otherwise, and used to be a great kisser while being intimate, but it seems that recently, his kissing skills have regressed. The problem is that when he gets really into the moment, he starts practically mauling my face off, which is not sexy at all, and, is painful when he has stubble, which is most of the time. I’ve usually been able to solve the problem by situating myself so that I’m above him when we’re kissing so that…

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