Updates

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today, we hear from “Concerned Sister,” a woman in her 20s who still lived at home with her single mother and brother who is also in his 20s. She wrote in after finding “unconventional porn” on her brother’s computer and worried that it could be a symptom of something greater. Everyone told her to chill out (and mind her own business), but keep reading to see if she had reason to worry.

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today, we hear from “Not Into Helping My Friends Shower” who was creeped out by her male friend in a wheel chair always asking for help with things like showering and going to the bathroom. She updated once before and now has another long update. The saga, as they say, continues…

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today, we hear from “Left of the Guest List,” a guy who was peeved about not being invited to his girlfriend’s daughter’s wedding. Keep reading to see if things were resolved.

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today, we hear from “iPad Snooper” who found incriminating messages from a female friend of her boyfriend’s. “My boyfriend says that she merely misconstrued one-on-one dinners as romantic encounters,” she wrote. “I’m not sure if I believe him. I should mention that I do have some anxiety issues, so sometimes worry excessively. I don’t know what to do.” Keep reading for an update.

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today, we hear from “Not a Teenager” whose boyfriend was obsessed with the teen girls he was friending on Facebook. Keep reading to see whether she’s given him the boot yet.

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today, we hear from “Anxious About Love” who was embarrassed when she said “I love you” to her long-distance boyfriend of five months, and he responded with, “Are we there yet?” She updated us once before when, after a year and a half of dating her boyfriend, she received an email from his other girlfriend — one she never knew existed. To make matters more complicated, she’d just accepted a job in the city where he lived. “I will still take…

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today, we hear from “Inconvenient Proposal” who was bothered that her fiancé, whose proposal she had just accepted, still let his mother pay his bills. She worried about whether he was ready and responsible enough for marriage. Keep reading to see whether they’re still engaged since the column was published a few weeks ago.

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today, we hear from “Stuck in a Limbo Divorce” who wondered whether the guy she had a great date with shortly after separating from her husband has waited for her while her divorce drags on for months and months.

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today, we hear from “No Kissy Face for Me” who wrote in last week about her boyfriend of eight months, whom she lives with, suddenly becoming distant. Her response isn’t so much an update but more of a … clarification. Read on.

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today, we hear from “Non-Believer,” an atheist woman who had just become exclusive with a practicing Christian who had expressed his desire that his future family — wife, included — attend church with him regularly. She was unsure whether she should continue dating him if their different values would ultimately be a deal-breaker. She updated once before, saying she was still going to wait and see. Now she has one final update: