Am I being too pushy on dates? I could use some advice.
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You haven’t been in a serious relationship in a long time. I don’t even think you have many or any female friends, because if they were close to you, you’d go to them for relationship advice, not a random site that you say you’ve read for years but you don’t Wendy’s tagline, know Kate or I (active people on the site for like, ever) or basic dating etiquette? I doubt that.
You buried the lede that you couldn’t get it up. That’s probably it, Jeff. That’s why you didn’t get a second date.
I was merely trying to make the point/ educate you that as a modern man, who is worldly and attuned to modern women’s issues, perhaps you could behave more gentlemanly on dates, instead of rushing right to “hooking up,” (what 36 year old says that?!) not getting it up and making women feel like all you want is sex. After about 27/28 if you beg women to come home with you on the first date, it’s not really a compliment anymore, because at that age women like to feel valued as human beings. When you say on your profile that you want a serious relationship, they get disappointed if you try to hook up with them on the first date, which is what your date told you.
I don’t need luck, thanks anyways. I’m happily married. My husband is a fucking rockstar and has the emotional depth of the Marianna trench compared to some…
You literally are blissfully unaware, as you said. You said you were deaf to the issue, is that not the same as being blind to it? Unaware? Unconcerned?
I also am sensing that… maybe this has been really triggering for some of you based on experiences you had in the past with men. So, maybe that’s a good reason to stop here.
I’m not yelling at you? You can stop playing at anytime. You think this is triggering, fuck you, Jeff. You’re arguing with a rape victim about statistics for why? Go fuck around on Reddit.
Oh, maybe when I literally said that? You are such a dumbass, Jeff. Duh. From the beginning I have been telling you that.
Yeah fair, I’ve read like 8 posts in my life from here. And I don’t know you two.
Kate: anonymousse is clearly triggered?
She’s not, Jeff, this is her usual online tone. She doesn’t care about you and your dumb bullshit, she just likes to post on here.
I get triggered by sexist, dumbasses who claim not to be aware that women may be on alert on first dates with strangers? LOL you started arguing with a rape victim. Like… wow you sure schooled me in facts about rape, Jeff. Good for you? Put that on your tinder profile.
My god, those links.
That vox article is literally about college campuses and consent. You’re 36. Made my point for me, thanks Jeff. The psych today article, hilarious. Did you notice the next series is titled: Regret?
The jokes write themselves, Jeff.
