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March 15, 2018 at 3:13 pm #743261
Dear Julie:
“We all criticize each other’s advice”- what a shame. People don’t need more criticism- it does not promote mental health. Makes good entertainment, sometimes, but it is not helpful or healthy. I like the concept of EAR: Empathy, Assertiveness, Respect.
What you, Julie, are offering here is aggression. And because you are a moderator here, supported by the website owner, you do have the authority to practice and promote aggression. Therefore, I exit this website and will not be logging in again.
anita
March 15, 2018 at 6:36 pm #743281Anita,
Empathy and respect, are truly things I admire in other humans… but what about the woman/object of affection in this post? Your advice to this man was to NOT respect what she said, and to push her boundaries further.The ability to accept criticism constructively, and reflect on your own opinions and challenges to them is really just a sign of a well rounded, and mature person.
It’s this adamant divisive (I’m right, and your opinion isn’t because it doesn’t match mine!) that shuts down important conversations that lead to better understanding.
Cheers,
AnonymoussePS I would buy a WWKD? Or a DWKD bracelet.
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