He made a 2 weeks vacation plan without me.

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  • MaltaKano
    January 17, 2019 at 7:43 pm #816181

    Late to the game here but OMG DUMP THIS ASSHOLE. A man in his 30s pulling this nonsense is never going to mature out of it. OP, please, please, please talk to a therapist about why you don’t feel justified in being angry about his shady trip planning and obvious disrespect. I’m in my 30s and my boyfriend of 3 years is very independent – we often travel separately. He visits other countries with his friends and doesn’t always invite me. All of that is fine, because we communicate about our plans and support each other. I would NEVER be ok with what you’ve described.

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    Rebecca
    January 17, 2019 at 8:39 pm #816194

    It’s not ‘off,’ Mark, if we accept that he’s spinning her every type of tall tale imaginable so she’ll get off his ass long enough for him to go sow his wild oats.

    OP, if he’s revisiting his youth, or past, or whatever bullshit language you/he used, then he’d be going TO A PLACE HE’S ALREADY BEEN.

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    Bittergaymark
    January 18, 2019 at 10:52 am #816250

    Rebecca, as SPIN goes though, it seems unusually thin and easy to see through. Then again, the LW kept buying it, so maybe you are onto something.

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    Ashley
    January 23, 2019 at 9:26 am #821167

    Not enough info-y’all say you talked about it…well what did he say? Is it possible you aren’t fun to travel with? I mean some people want to wander, other want an itinerary. Maybe he’s meeting someone there? I dunno, I think you need to be honest with yourself if this is an outcome of an underlying problem or not, since you have is like nothing to work woth

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