“I Can’t Get Over That My Wife Had Sex Before We Met”
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Chris, I should add that we’ve been married for 31 years and still going strong. We’ve raised a son and our daughter is a senior in high school. We’ve lived in three states together. We’ve traveled together and faced cancer together and laughed together and cried together. Believe me when I say that the first time you have sex is absolutely irrelevant to a lasting relationship and absolutely trivial to life in general.
Therapy is not going to help here. Some people just want to be unhappy. And you can not fix stupid. Another person that can not see their blessings and is going to find fault with something.
It’s acrually so ridiculous. Do you know how lucky anyone is to find that right person. And I don’t mean fairy tale right person, I mean the real, hard work, can spend your life together person. So hard. We see it not work every day. Im just damn grateful I found him and can come home to him everyday. What his penis did before me is the least of my concerns in life.
Acrually. Thanks phone.
I don’t think this is an issue of the OP wanting a virgin as much as I think this guy just really wants to fuck someone who isn’t his wife. He’s upset about her experience because he’s jealous. He’s never dipped his pen in anyone else’s ink and he’s been with the same woman for years. She’s now pregnant which may mean she’s not as interested in sex so here he sits, presumably frustrated, and dwelling on the fact that he will likely never have sex with anyone else as long as he is alive. Being upset that she’s had more sexual partners alleviates the guilt he probably would feel if he and his partner were both virgins when they met. This is so common among couples who get married young. He’s almost 30 and he feels locked down. I suspect this is the beginning of the end for his relationship, especially because he keeps trying to sell how perfect his wife is… if she was so perfect he wouldn’t even be thinking about this.
Wow – the number of sexual partners you’ve had in life is just NOT IMPORTANT. It’s just so completely not important and trivial and the fact that this is a huge issue for you is very very strange. You need a new and better therapist…research who near you is good and call around and make an appointment today. Don’t put it off. You need to gain some maturity and the ability to see the big picture in life. You are being immature and jealous. What really is important in life? Being a good partner through the years, being there for each other, both of you always putting in the effort to fix your marriage, sticking with one another through the bad times, knowing things will get better, supporting and encouraging each other, raising a family (if you both so desire) and putting in effort every day with the kids, teaching them to be good people, tag teaming with your wife on the hard parts, giving each other breaks, thinking about the other person’s needs, comforting each other, growing old together. Good luck in gaining maturity and wisdom. Call today. NEW THERAPIST.
Cut her loose. She deserves better than a petty sanctimonious little man for a husband.
Oh, pay child support. Until it hurts.
You will never get over it. My wife and I started dating in high school
I’ve only ever had sex with, but she’s had sex with 4 other guys before me. We dated for 5 years and have been married for 15 with kids. Wish I never even started daring her and had listened to my parents. Just endure it and stay with her.Leave your wife now so she can have decent sex again. Your right to feel bad about being a bad lay.
Lolol. Seriously?
Let’s gather all the “whores” and burn them at the stake.
In truth, I feel that judgmental people who think like you do more harm to society than people who’ve had sex with a few people.
It’s amazing how insecure some people are. Sir, you’re a disgrace to your children. I hope your wife finds this post and starts racking up some numbers again. God only knows what kind of piss-poor excuse for a dick she’s been dealing with.
This is the type of guy who goes off the rails because he can’t bear to see or think about “his woman” with another man.
Women aren’t possesions.
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