What does my married colleague want?
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LucidityAugust 18, 2022 at 12:26 pm #1112994
@WhyDoWeExist, that is the definition of marriage for a Christian person only. I was raised Christian and married in a Catholic ceremony and I am here to firmly state that God has nothing to do with the marriages of those from other religions and those with no religion.
Please don’t prosthelytize here, this forum is not the place for it.
ronAugust 18, 2022 at 12:50 pm #1112997” I am here to firmly state that God has nothing to do with the marriages of those from other religions and those with no religion.”
Lucidity — this is as prejudiced a comment as that from Why Do We Exist. Of course God is a part of Jewish, Muslim, and almost every religious marriage (perhaps not Unitarian for all Unitarians — I say this as basically a Unitarian). For some religions it may be a different God than for yours. For Jews and Muslims it is exactly the same God. That’s why the Jewish Old Testament is holy to Christians and both the Jewish Old Testament and Christian New Testament are holy to Muslims.
It’s fine to feel that way, @WhyDoWeExist, and IMO fine to give the advice that in your eyes he has broken a covenant, but that’s not everyone’s truth and preaching your religion here adds nothing to help the LW in the situation she’s in. It’s also inappropriate.
Your opinions on divorce are actually totally irrelevant to this situation.
- This reply was modified 2 years, 4 months ago by Copa.
FyodorAugust 18, 2022 at 2:08 pm #1113002I mean, if you believe in an omnipotent G-d in the literal sense everything is about G-d but it’s just not true that most people make a “covenant” with G-d when they get married. Many people have secular religious ceremonies. The majority of humans are not even nominally Christian. Jewish marriage contracts are between the bride and groom and do not mention G-d.
And your casual conclusory rattling off of permissible reasons for divorce shows incredible contempt for people from different religious traditions with broader rules or people with secular beliefs who don’t comport with your views on when divorce is permissible.
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