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That’s amazing Copa!
Sorry to hear about your friend’s dad, Vathena.
The numbers are not good where I am. I am hopeful with the vaccination but it’s going to be a rough couple of months.
Glad your bf tested negative, copa!
Yes, there should definitely (I think) be other venues around. It was fun visioning something at that venue, so I’m glad I nipped that in the bud early. I think that is why we are leaning on a smaller number, because that way we have something fairly solid to plan around. I am getting excited to plan something. That said we are in a “lockdown” now — I put that in quotations because it is really not much of a lockdown.
I never dreamt of my wedding, but I always thought it would be a larger one, due to the size of my extended family. I also like the idea of bringing old friends together. Now that I’m engaged, I realize I am not too bothered by it all. I just want to get married. Of course, I mean I do care, but I am coming around to the idea of a smaller wedding. My mom is also being remarkably chill and she says my fiance and I can do what we want… She was not quite as chill with my older sister, unfortunately, heh.
Dealing with my first “disappointment” in wedding planning! The restaurant venue we were hoping for is not taking any 2021 bookings until they deal with their around 20 cancellations from 2020! Honestly, I am ok with it and it was the first place we reached out to but still, I hope not all places are like this.
I think we have decided on immediate family and wedding party for September 2021 (20 people). Church ceremony and reception at a restaurant. No big party in 2022 because by then I think we will have moved on, but maybe we will have some backyard barbecues. I feel maybe it is “too” small for September 2021 since hopefully people will have vaccines by then. But if we bump it up to 50 then it’ll end up being 100 because my dad’s side is like 50 people with cousins and their kids, and I would want to invite all of them.
Also, my fiance and I are still hoping for dining outdoors. I can’t imagine dining indoors with 20 people yet even though maybe it’ll be safe when we have vaccines?
Definitely don’t want this to be my wedding stuff thread but that is a mini-update in case you were curious!
Helen, I am so sorry. I don’t know much but are there any virtual AA meetings? I think an in person meeting could be done relatively safely as someone pointed out above.
As for the “extra curriculars”, I don’t blame you wanting your children to participate. It is ultimately a reduction of risk. You may be exposed by your husband. But at least your kids won’t be further potentially exposed. You can only do what’s in your control.
As for speech therapy, are they able to do this one on one? I do think this important for their health too. People where I am are still going to doctors and dentists.
Oh Copa, I hope your bf is alright. Please keep us updated.
Ugh that sucks MG! Hope Costco can do something for you.
I have had the brush for 3.5 years. It still holds up. The Dyson air wrap looks incredible. It’s just the price… haha.
I’ve never been able to/taken the time to learn how to curl my hair. I can’t do the flippy blow out style with the Revlon without it looking weird (to me).
Interesting, thanks all. It dawned on me that my mom did all of our laundry growing up, including ironing my dad’s shirts. She was of that era. I mean I knew but didn’t fully appreciate it. I don’t think I want to do that or that my fiancé expects that. I don’t think I am ready to touch his sweaty workout clothes haha, but I am more particular about my laundry. But it’s more environmentally friendly to do fuller loads.
I see how that the division of chores might change when you have the baby (!), ver.
I’m sorry to hear about your husband, Roxy. Wishing him a speedy recovery. Hope you stay negative.
I wish I could spend Christmas with my parents. It might be my last unmarried one and I know it sounds silly but I just feel all sentimental about it. I am looking forward to my first Christmas with my fiancé though. We’ve always spent Christmas with our own families. And I realize that in the future we might have more family obligations so might as well enjoy this one. I bought a small prime rib and I’m looking forward to our dinner!
@copa, yes, we are looking to buy and move in together in the next 6 months. The market is not great for buyers now but hopefully we will find something. I do feel more confident moving forward now that we are engaged.
On that note — for people who live together with their SO, do you do you your own laundry or share the chore?
@Cleo, yes I read that subreddit too! FWIW, I wish I went to see a doctor earlier. I know not everybody has the best experience with doctors but I personally liked mine. They can go through with you on different factors, like for example, your IUD. Especially since you have had ongoing issues, I’m not sure if the stuff on that subreddit will work.
I haven’t had too much trouble with getting Vaseline on my pillow but I tend to sleep on my side. It is seriously such a treat for me to slather Vaseline on my face. Something just for me. It was a “step” in my relationship the first time I did that when my boyfriend (I mean, fiancé! Haha) stayed over.
Canada approved the Pfizer vaccine. I feel like slowly the weight is being lifted even though I probably won’t get the vaccine for like 10 months. I just want to eat indoors at a restaurant.
@Cleo, I used Accutane. My skin has never been flawless but then my acne got pretty bad a couple years ago. I went on some antibiotics which didn’t really help so then I went on Accutane. I was nervous about the side effects and that it was a strong medication too. My biggest side effect was dryness. It’s also a little annoying because you have to get monthly bloodwork. Also, you really can’t get pregnant on it. I was really happy with my results. It’s only been a year. So far it’s been ok. Hopefully I don’t have to do it again, but it was worth doing for 6 months.
Also re mental health issues, my dr was clear that Accutane doesn’t cause depression but every time I had a check up, he asked me about my mood. I don’t think Accutane changed my mood.
