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So sorry to read this, and I saw in your stories, too, Wendy. I truly do not understand how I was contacted with our possible exposure. Luckily, my kids were negative last week. Which I’m most excited about because they are getting their shots this weekend!
I think I’ve shared some of my personal medical issues. Guess what, gang? Mono again. I’ve had shingles AND mono twice this year. Apparently, it’s also a virus that lies dormant and can reactivate in your body. I feel like I should be studied. I now have liver damage from all this crap. So viruses…getting them and getting well doesn’t always mean it’s all over. Be careful out there.
I made appointments for my kids to get their first doses next week! I’m so excited.
In other news, my son was exposed to a Covid positive at school. My son’s bus seat mate and cubby mate had it, I guess. We weren’t asked or notified at all by the school, I found out because I know the mother of the other kid. I’m super annoyed that the school never even contacted us until I reported my son’s symptoms and reported him absent. We are now waiting for test results. Hopefully it is not Covid, although it probably is.
I mean, by his timeline standards no one would ever probably make it to third base before someone gets distracted. People/teenagers and up have been making out in cars since they were invented.
Like his ideas of how love and mutual attraction build, and how it really happens with most people are not right. It’s all made up in Robert’s mind. He has no idea. And I don’t think he’s had sex, ever. I feel like a horrible person writing all of this, anyone thinking I don’t think I’m an asshole. I do.
Good head bashing today, everyone! It was a welcome distraction.
It’s funny Ron, I thought you had said that word about him at the beginning. I definitely could be wrong.
I don’t think Robert is an incel- although one could definitely argue he IS involuntarily celibate. However, I do think he blames his dysfunction with women on women being too fast, or not liking x mas, or having needs, whatever other thing, because at the heart of it, women have repeatedly rejected him over the years and he doesn’t understand or care to and is bitter about it. He hides it, he is polite mostly to us (although he hasn’t directly responded to me in ages.) Although I don’t think he’s an incel (and Ron, most incels aren’t throwing themselves at women, they’ve been repeatedly rejected and they are bitter, angry men) he doesn’t like them and sees us as “other.” Blaming expecting or wanting affection before 3-4 months while dating on the entire rest of society’s women being “too fast” is sexist and misogynistic.
Robert’s probably too old to be an incel, he’s just your normal garden variety woman disliker.
Remember when he’d wax on and on about how he can imagine cuddling and PDA being so satisfying and if he had a gf he’d love to take her out to a burger joint and pet her to show their superior love to all mere subhumans? And all of us thought that was weird and gross and would not want to be pet in public anywhere?
Now women expecting affection anytime BEFORE Robert must be “fast movers.”
Yes, I need to bang my ahead and a distraction but other than that, Robert I truly do believe you’re beyond hope because you’re so stubborn and refuse to listen to anything we give you as constructive advice. You’re hopeless because you refuse to confront your real problems.
It’s amazing Robert, truly. That you can be so blind and ridiculous. We’ve told you it’s YOU a million times in a million ways and you still want to blame…
WOMEN as a whole. I think years ago, right at the start someone said you were an incel and here it is.
It’s amazing you can wax on for paragraphs about how much a first kiss means to you like you are so much better than everyone else on this earth. Everything just means MORE to you. No, it actually, really doesn’t, Robert. That’s just what you tell yourself. All of us are capable of deep feeling and emotion and love and romance and most of us have had long term relationships in our lives for the most part, or at least have had within the last 25 years. And you dumped your one and only gf who you loved so so deeply because she wasn’t as “ambitious and driven” as you, while she was making money and you say you were in debt! So that love and a kiss must not have really meant ALL that much at the time, ehh? Otherwise, surely you could have mansplained her into being ambitious and driven and successful just like you? You could love AND kiss her Robert, but still dump her over her unsuccessful debt free life?
You’re full of bullshit, Robert. Sorry, but that’s the truth.
Wendy’s advice was spot on, as has been Kate’s and everyone else.
It boils down to, you frighten women away. Only you won’t accept that and will only argue how that’s not true. You could argue with your in real life friends, but you’ve pushed those away, too. Quite a while ago, right? So it’s not just women you’ve pushed away somehow.
It’s you, Robert. I’m sorry but something about you puts people off and if you want friendships and ever having the possibility of love again, go see an actually therapist and keep going for a long time, especially if you think it’s pointless and not working. Stop dating. I hope you stop this outward blame bullshit and actually look inside STAT.
A kiss is not a handshake, and no one ever said anything like that! You shake hands upon meeting someone. When you’re dating someone, you are getting to know them and figuring out chemistry. Even a kiss at the end of a first date is nothing like a handshake. The comparison is preposterous. You’re making us all out to be whores or something and you’re the peculiar one!
Robert, therapy. And you’ll also be amazed at this thing called “self help books.” You’ve spent decades believing women don’t like affection from men they’ve been dating for literally months? We can help you no more.
I am planning to talk to my dr. and make sure getting both on the same day is okay. I didn’t have any symptoms with the first shot, and I don’t normally with the flu other than a sore arm.
I was one of the ones who got the j&j and I chose to get the Moderna for the booster.
Croissant fringe, yum.
I’m getting my booster AND my flu vaccine next week. I’m excited.
These are not the things I thought I’d be excited about in my life right now, but I’ll take it.
