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The Instagram post was to make you feel bad. He’s manipulative, selfish and an asshole. He’s not a friend. He was just biding his time to get a chance with you and now he’s acting wounded because you aren’t interested.
Ugh, gross. You should unfollow and block and move on. He definitely is really selfish. He’s a jerk.
Yeah you’ve got a NiceGuy (TM) on your hands. He’s hoping for a moment of weakness. He’s just “looking out for you.”
He could treat you right, blah blah blah.
Never mind what you feel.
You’re not going to be friends. Take a long break from this friendship. It will probably need to be permanent. This has happened to me a time or two, and it’s so so disappointing.
I have known teen girls who smell or have bad habits. A lot of times kids reach early teenage hood and don’t know about deodorant, stinky feet, etc if they haven’t been taught to take care of their body properly.
I think some parents honestly just avoid talking to their kids about anything “awkward.” Why? Who knows. They assume they get all the education they need at school.
And yeah, teens are also stubborn as hell. They do ignore or do the opposite of what they are asked to do.
It’s one thing to have a thought or feeling, and another to act on it. You have no reason not to trust him, and instead of acknowledging that and dismissing your irrational thoughts, you’re demanding to see every text and have access to his phone.
You might not be able to control how you feel, but you can control how you act on those feelings. If you’re in a relationship where you don’t trust the other person, you should reflect on why you’re dating someone you don’t trust. Is it that he’s not worthy of your trust? Or is it that you have your own personal insecurities that are holding you back from trust?
It’s not normal and not okay to demand someone make concessions because of your insecurity or jealousy.
I really would look into that ASAP. He is going to start feeling resentful (if he hasn’t already) that he’s being treated this way.
You know the relationship isn’t like that…eh,
than why in the world are you:
questioning him, suspicious of him, making him feel guilty and then asking to look through his phone?Please go see a therapist. You clearly have a lot of issues with trust.
You either trust your partner, or you don’t.
You don’t. Why?How would you feel if he demanded to know every text you received, and then asked to go through your phone to confirm you were telling the truth?
This level of distrust and jealousy(?) is so immature. I’m actually surprised he’s still in a relationship with you.
Yeah, agreed. No one likes someone who brags. Most people don’t have to walk around telling people how great they are. That’s actually kind of a red flag for me. If you’re a good guy, people around you know that. Humble-bragging doesn’t go over well, either.
Whatever you actually think about this story, Hunter- you know it’s not going over well, so that should be your cue to stop talking about it.
Ha ha ha.
Ehh, keep it out there. Let parents see everything so they can choose a better sitter.
Childish. OMG.
