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Good lord. You wrote in asking if it was wrong. The consensus is yes! It is wrong to spend all day texting a married man. If you don’t agree, fine, keep texting a married man you admit to have feelings for.
It’s doesn’t matter what the content is (although him texting about his marriage problems is inappropriate) you are playing with fire. It’s already making you feel uncomfortable. And now you’re sad he hasn’t been responding so quickly.
Because that’s what you told us.
If this is the first time you are considering he might be lying…you are naive. Incredibly naive. Like, take a step back from messaging strangers online naive. Seriously.
You have never met this man, yet spend all day talking to him. Please volunteer somewhere for a cause you care about. You’ll get more in return, I promise. And you just might meet someone in real life.You came on here because you started feeling it was inappropriate. You know it’s wrong. It IS wrong. The onus isn’t only on him, here. He’s being a shitty husband, and you’re being a shitty person by trying to make a companion out of someone else’s husband. Are you really this lonely? If getting sexual isn’t the end game for you, what is? What are you really getting out of this?
Chatting with someone ALL day is a huge distraction from work and his life. If you can seriously say that texting with someone all day isn’t a distraction…why did you even write in?
This is a waste of your time. That’s what it is. And if ghosting him is so beneath your moral standard, go on and tell him it’s starting to feel weird and you need to self preserve and back away.
Being respectful of others really isn’t THAT difficult.
PC culture doesn’t allow people to enjoy Mexican food? Or a Turkish bath? I think you just made all of that up.
That’s not at all what cultural appropriation is.
From what you wrote,
“We grew close through a lot of texts and video chats with a lot of intimate talk.”
there definitely was an inappropriate element.
Maybe his wife saw the messages, or he grew a conscious and decided nothing good would come out of reminiscing with you.It really doesn’t matter what happened, it’s over. You really should focus on your husband and marriage, and not a fantasy from over 20 years ago. Those things are best left alone if you want your marriage to last.
Tiffani, have you found a grief counselor yet? Have you looked for one?
That’s what you should be doing.
Our concern is for the grandchild, not this woman, and not her son.
Did you read the other post about this, CanadaGoose?
Tiffani has decided to not meet her grandchild and her only involvement has been to push for this paternity test. She isn’t helping support this child in any way. Many people implored her to seek counseling (*for her grief) and she hasn’t. I believe I even linked to a site to find low or no cost help.
She’s had tunnel vision and her focus on this test is to give her son a reason to be sober, she’s said so in so many words.I think it’s bitchy to make a point to be rude to me specifically considering a lot of the other comments.
I think you are reading into my comments and perceiving sarcasm and aggression that wasn’t there. And as far as demeaning…wow.
I actually try not to sound like an asshole most of the time.
I’m definitely being a jerk now, but I guess it’s because I don’t truly understand why I’m being singled out for the same opinion most other people have.
I get it, my thoughts aren’t welcome here.
