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Maybe she’s employing the D.E.N.N.I.S. System.
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Improve yourself by not being an obsessive creep who doesn’t respect clear boundaries.
I’m raging? You are the one obsessing here. You are the one who is angry at having been rejected.
I’m telling you we can see right through you.
Enjoy living in your mother’s basement!
Eh, fuck you Hans. I can keep my browser open all day and all night. IDGAF what you think about it. If you contact her again, I hope she calls campus police, her RA, or asks her new boyfriend that she actually likes to talk to you about respecting women.
Your mommy issues are no excuse for your shitty behavior. Grow up. Stop blaming everyone else for your creepy behavior. I’m not surprised you blame your mother, what a joke.
It’s also a self fulfilling prophecy. You aren’t ready to respect women, you know they won’t go for the “real” you and as soon as they start to know you better, they back away, slowly and gently because you fucking scare them.
I’ve felt physically repulsed by men that I thought were great at one point. My body and my intuition knew better. Thank god for that.
LOL, Sarah B. I wonder how she’s doing.
Anything can happen!
Hey Hans, you know how you repeatedly told me to stop posting? And I didn’t?
Doesn’t feel good when someone doesn’t respect your wishes, does it?Go fuck yourself with a cactus, buddy. You aren’t a good guy, that’s why women don’t stick around. You are a scary creep, obsessive with violent fantasies. It’s all right under the surface and women can sense it. We learn from a young age how to let down men easy, because so many are entitled pieces of crap, like you. Not all men, nope, not by a long shot. But you take rejection as a personal insult, when it’s not. You need real help. But I doubt you’ll ever get it, because you are too cowardly to dig deeper with a professional. You know the problem is inside yourself.
All your complexes—-we ALL have that. Or other crap we are all struggling with. It doesn’t matter or make you special. It’s not an excuse for not respecting boundaries, CLEAR BOUNDARIES. How many different ways do you need to hear NO??
Men’s rights activists from reddit aren’t bearers of good advice, and you’ll find the women around you can pick up on misogyny pretty quick.
Do better. Even your male friends tell you to back off, JFC.
Get a hobby. Read a real book. Better yourself and please get real help before you try “dating” again.I think it’s pretty rude to start pointing fingers at me, Hans.
Your dismissal and finger pointing proves my point of why she dangles on the edge of a full on hurtful explanation for you— she knows you’ll probably get angry or mean.If you wonder why you can’t keep the women you like, ask your close friends. Ask them to be brutally honest. And hopefully, they will be.
It’s funny you didn’t mention any of those dates in your initial post.
That didn’t seem pertinent to you? ?Even if you WERE dating her, which requires a mutual agreement, you aren’t now. Ouch! The truth hurts, baby boy.
This other guy didn’t charm her more..she feels chemistry with him. She likes him. It’s mutual. Not one sided.
The fact that it’s been two weeks since you last spoke, and you are still struggling to comprehend what happened, and won’t hear what everyone is telling you…shows you seriously need mental help.
Yeah, I am a fucking keyboard warrior, dude. I’m just here to battle misogyny and echo the voices of everyone else on this thread with a shred of common sense.
Especially when creepy men will not listen to reason.
You have heard the truth from so many, even before you wrote in. That’s why you wrote, ‘don’t tell me I’ve been friend zoned.’You knew the answer then, and you know it now. It is over.
I’m sorry that it hurts. We have all had heartbreaks. We’ve all been rejected and lived through it. Hey, I’ve even been a creep about it before! I have felt the horrible desperation you feel when you like someone and they just don’t like you anymore. It’s terrible. I can be honest about that.
If you want to wallow in the whys of it all, write in a journal, write a poem or a song, or please go speak to a counselor. There is nothing wrong about seeing a professional when you need help. Take advantage of the amenities your college tuition affords you!
We are older than you, with a lot of life experience and are trying to tell you, there is no deeper closure or resolution that you are going to get from her at this moment in time.
You think I’m being rude, but I think we are all just tired of telling you to leave her alone.
And with that, I bid you adieu, because even assholes like me need sleep.You were never dating.
You never went on a date.
She never called you her bf.
She actually told you she didn’t want a relationship at all.
You were cuddles buddies. It is a thing. It happens in college. Lots of booze, people to impress. I cuddled and slept* next to various friends in college. Affection is nice.
But if one doesn’t want it anymore, it’s done.
Stop. You are sounding more and more irrational the more you go on. Please go see your school counselor and take a women’s studies course.
Honestly, at this point it sounds like you are pissed that yet another woman doesn’t want to have sex with you.
No one owes you sex, Hans. If you want woman to feel comfortable around you for the long run, you need to listen and respect what they say in the moment. Every time.
