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I don’t think you know what it’s like to be in a good relationship. It seems you dated right out of high school for ten years and mention how you are always the one paying in all your relationships.
He’s either broke, or cheap,and clearly doesn’t feel you are his equal. Six weeks later….what has changed! He dismissed you when you brought it up. He gaslighted you. And he still hasn’t paid, amirite?
What’s it going to take? Do you want to marry a grifter?
Maybe he got caught by his current gf.
That stinks, I’m sorry.
I fucking LOVED axe throwing and if you have a good coach, it’s easy.
They are small hatchets not axes, so it’s not hard.Headphones in, no music playing and a big middle finger. Or an air horn.
Or taking the high road and not reacting.Amen, fedup.
I used to work with a guy who would literally say “you’re beautiful” to any woman he came in contact with everyday, knowing that 1/100 would answer and he’d verify she had low self esteem…I’ll let you imagine the rest.
Even though these women knew what his MO was, they were so desperate and thought so little of themselves, they’d go home with him.
He wasn’t a cat caller, though. Just a jerk opportunist.
I love the air horn idea.
“I suspect that someone saying that isn’t vulgarly shouting it but perhaps saying it while standing near at a light or something.”
Really? Where do you live? Under a rock?
Men shout it. Men whisper it at bus stops. No matter what, it is harassment. Obscene comments that aren’t wanted is the definition of harassment.If they are men working on a site and you can see their company’s info, call that company and complain.
Commenting on a women’s breasts on the street and saying she is beautiful is harassment. JFC. How old are you?
That is not meant to make a woman feel good about herself, it’s to put her back in her place.JFC, no ones deserves to be harassed walking down the street. It is not a compliment.
I’m so tired of people telling women they need to suck it up. That’s exactly why we live in a toxic hetero male sex dominated world.I would always ignore it. There is no way responding is going to change the situation for the better, unless you are with your girl gang. Then, ladyblades attack! There were a few awesome viral videos of women fighting back by following men in cars who had harassed them.
But seriously, as much as I walk around trying to fix injustices in front of me with words, by responding, you are giving attention to the situation, feeding the trolls. And situations often escalate.
THere’s always that chance that he’s a psycho misogynist.The Walton’s are the worst.
