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You know what he tells you, or implies, or you disregard what he says and believe what you choose to.So, he’s a virgin? He’s never had a relationship?
I have known men like this, who keep their private life very private. They play up the “lone wolf” self image because that’s the story they enjoy telling themselves.Yeah, you should have listened to him. He’s single bachelor enjoying his money. Date someone who wants a real relationship who’s preferably a little closer to your age. With similiar goals and wants in life.
You are low maintenance because you don’t mention your wants. You came here and complained about an issue and asked for advice and never brought up the truth with him.
I’m betting he’s had many of these casual things, and I’m betting he’s had women walk away a lot and he just moves on to the next. He is like Peter Pan in that way. He doesn’t want a real relationship. And maybe you don’t either since you can’t be honest about your feelings.
I doubt it would affect him much. Who knows? He just invited you to travel with him and you turned him down…why?
Who cares about his history with your family? Isn’t he probably your father’s buddy? He’s 23 years older than you.
Not a match. None of your other incidental information makes up for he is not going to give you what you want.He’s not going to change for you. That’s what he was saying to you, implicitly and explicitly.
Whatever it takes to help you sleep at night.
Good luck with that.You aren’t getting what you want, and seem fine with enjoying the terms he gives you. Enjoy!
ALTERNATIVE FACTS
Girl, you just got played. He took your manipulative attempt at a heartfelt letter (yes, that’s what that was) and twisted you sideways into thinking you clarified anything. He clarified, he’s not adjusting his plans, he’s not texting you once a day, and he doesn’t see a future with you now, after a year of dating.
You are choosing to believe what you want to hear, not what he said.
Kare, is that your friend with the child, and the husband is on drugs or something?
If so, thank god!
Yes, kids are complicated. I can’t even imagine splitting my family up…but I don’t think we would, ever. My husband’s pretty amazing.
Abbytoo, yes, as everyone’s said, just be careful.Kiss him!
