ktfran
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Yes, please tell, was there any kissing or anything?
It is 100% ok to say, and actually have other plans, H. Honestly, if I were just starting to date someone and that guy was constantly available, I would be a little worried that he didn’t have a life. So… while dating, don’t NOT make plans with other people, friends included, in hopes that the person you’re interested in is available to do something. Also, that only helps you because you’re not sitting around wondering if he or she is into you or why they haven’t called, etc.
As for a second date, you might get together this coming up weekend? A hike or bike ride might be cool if you’re into that sort of thing?
I planned my date with the guy tonight. I’m taking a play out of AP’s book and we’re taking a water taxi to Chinatown and dining there. He seemed to really like the idea. Thanks AP!
Thanks TexasT!
I echo others, Miss Dre. That sucks, but I would write him off and lose his number.
What’s a good Chicago date? Most of our dates center around drinks and food. Last night while texting, he mentioned staying in and cooking…. but I want to suggest a fun activity. AND GO….
Sorry stone. That sucks! I agree with you and wouldn’t contact him again, unless he reached out. I’m think this picnic date is amazing!
I’m not sure why I was afraid of mentioning going out again. Monday. Next date. Yay.
Haha. Yes! Ver… Totally agree.
Although, I’ve been so busy at work this week and haven’t felt like shaving, so pants it as been. TMI!
IDK, I think too much about clothes. You’re right… venue matters more. I just think a Sunday date would be more casual. People don’t dress up as much on Sunday’s.
Actually, I would almost rather wear a sundress on a Sunday date and wear the jeans/top combo on a Friday/Saturday.
Sundress is totally acceptable for a Sunday date.
Kate’s right about sitting at the bar. I love sitting at the bar. In fact, I think guy is impressed when we walk into a place and I say let’s just sit at the bar. I’ll ask him out.
Also, I second the sandals or wedges. Basically, just listen to Kate, always.
I echo others. If it’s a day date, I usually wear a fun skirt or sundress. If it’s an evening date, jeans and a nice top. If it’s after work, work clothes…. but I make sure I look extra good that day. I also echo others in that’s it best just to think of this as a potential friend as opposed to someone you want to date. It takes a little pressure off and you can decide if you actually like him as a person. I will say, I get ridiculously nervous before dates. Since dating this current dude, I’ve lost a couple pounds. Nervous stomach. Can’t help it.
Date went well last night. I think we’re both swamped this weekend and I’m out of town next weekend. I also have appointments after work next week, but they’re all be done by 7:30. I’m thinking I might, for the first time, extend the invite…. he’s done all the inviting thus far. It’s ok to do that, right?
Eve, when’s the date and what are you doing?
