Crochet.Ninja
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i couldn’t even get through it all. but everything she said, all i could think is ‘the kid is 10 years old!’ who cares if her dad cuts up her pancakes or gets her juice?? who cares if she wrote on the whiteboard? because seriously, it’s a white board, isn’t that everyone’s first instinct?
counseling, ftw. or just leave, and let that guy and his daughter move on.
i’m actually planning on making cinnamon rolls tonight AP! finally, after a week of wanting them..
looks like i completely missed this one. has anyone else wanted to go to the Body Farm ?? i would love to be sent there when i die. but hubby won’t have it :/ i told him, I’ll be dead, i won’t care! and they’ll give me back after..
1. birth control!
2. Accept yourself. You are good enough.
3. You are much cuter than you realize now. see #2.
4. Save money whenever possible, and don’t use credit cards if you can help it. And if you do use them, pay them off every month – which will build your credit.
5. Live on your own if at all possible before you move in with someone. There’s something to be said about having your own space before you share with someone else.
6. As for jobs and school, everyone is different. Looking back, I really wish I had taken something simple in college, like a basic accounting certificate as back up. I’m not a career person, but it’s hard to change industries with no schooling to back it up. Something like accounting is used in all industries. I’d rather be happy than have money, but being comfortable definitely helps.
7. Learn how to communicate with everyone, especially significant others. Learn how to say the hard stuff, and work through it. Unfortunately the only way to do this is to just keep trying until you find what works.
8. If you drink, find out what your limits are in a safe environment before you go party. Be aware of your surroundings at all times.
9. Try things that scare you.i’m sure there’s more!
i’m still surprised at how much of an issue this is with some people out there that you guys have run into.. even in my family, place of work (with older people) no one ever assumed anything, some asked if i was changing my name, or what i was doing, but no one seemed to care one way or another!
first marriage, i had always assumed i would take my husband’s name. we never really discussed it, but it never *felt* right. so i never did it. in retrospect that was the right decision.
this marriage/relationship? i felt all along that I would change my name. i’ve changed a few things over already, but waiting until we come back from a trip to do the whole shebang (so no passport/identity issues). and with him, there was never really a question, i just knew.
some people (man or woman) feel very strongly about name changing. i think it has to feel comfortable. for me in my first marriage i truly felt like i would lose part of myself if i changed my name. in this marriage, i know that’s not the case.
