Updates

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today, we hear from “Intern Love,” whose letter appeared in a shortcuts column last fall. She asked why this guy whom she dated for a few weeks while he was in her town for an internship had suddenly seemed to lose interest once he returned home. She updated us once before saying she had taken my advice and moved on already. And now she has a new update she wants to share:

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today, we hear from “First Time Lesbian” who was dating a woman for the first time and was disappointed that her mother wouldn’t allow her to bring her girlfriend to family events. Keep reading to see how they’re doing today and whether the girlfriend is welcome to the family Thanksgiving table this year.

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today, we hear from “Former Student,” a recent college grad who had been hanging out with a former high school teacher and wondered if he wanted to be more than friends with her. “My mom thinks he wants to date me, [but] I can’t help but think it’s weird that a normal, sane, good guy in his 30s would have any interest in my unemployed self.” I told her it actually wasn’t all that weird for a hetero guy in his…

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today, we hear from “That Girl” who developed a crush on a new booty call and then felt crushed when he stopped hanging out with her. “Should I just wait for him to ask me to hang out again and move on if he doesn’t, or should I try asking him out one more time?” she asked. Keep reading to see where things stand now.

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today, we hear from “Suspicious Neighbor” whose drunk, pants-less neighbor kept hitting on her husband. She updated us once before, and now she has some more news.

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today, we hear from “Newly Single” who wondered how long she should wait before trying to establish a friendship with the guy she just broke up with after 17 months together. Keep reading to see where they stand now.

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today, we hear from “Heartbreaker,” a 23-year-old computer science major who couldn’t stop all the guys from falling in love with her, and even started dating one of the students whose class she was TA-ing. “Please teach me to set boundaries,” she wrote. Keep reading to see what she’s learned.

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today, we hear from “Friendly Ex” who invited the girlfriend of her ex-husband/ father of her 12-year-old daughter to go shopping for a dress for her daughter’s school dance. The girlfriend was offended by the invite and the LW wondered if she overstepped her boundaries. Keep reading for an update.

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today, we hear from “Found His Sex Site,” a woman who discovered that her boyfriend was a member of a sex site where he was sharing stories about his sex life with other women. Keep reading to see whether these two are still together.

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today, we hear from “Pregnant Daughter” who was worried about how to tell her parents, whom she lives with, that she was pregnant. Keep reading to hear where things stand.