I have a MAJOR crush on my married boss!
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Unfortunately, this has become a case of any advice or explanation given and is laid out in the simplest of terms being ignored and argued with. The total sum of help is being brushed aside, while cherry-picking certain of the words in the advice and is then construed as an attack. I don’t know what can be done to make her see that. Perhaps that’s why therapy and/or meds have not worked. From what I see on this thread (and I’m not an expert—but I think 69 pages of this back-and-forth is pretty telling), the refusal to be open to LISTENING to advice as a whole and instead taking individual words as an attack will never have a productive outcome.
Guys she does want help, she just wants it to be help that she wants to hear and have the ability to talk to people like shit no matter what GOD WHY ARE U ALL SO STUPID ITS NOT THAT HARD #anythingcanhappen
Ok seriously, who wants to go back through 70 pages and count how many times Sarah b said she’s leaving this thread only to come back 3 seconds later? (Even after we started talking about Passions!)
Absolutely no one has talked shit about your family and friends. They could be part of the solution if they also change the patterns of interaction with you because you really need to stop lashing out at people. It’s really going to mess up your life as it continues. It becomes less and less acceptable as people age.
I read through this whole thread and this girl needs serious help. Her is enabling her behavior, and her therapist does not seem to be able to get to the root of the problem. She is just going to keep arguing with everyone and what they say. No point in even trying to be nice to her anymore. But at least this was an entertainingrread.
