Uncle or father? I don't want him to be her dad. I need advice.
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LucidityDecember 26, 2018 at 12:12 pm #813178
Gee, we suddenly get her attention when we remark it’s wierd she’s not paying these kinds of comments any attention? What a surprise.
http://www.dearwendy.com/topic/is-he-the-uncle-or-father-please-help-advice-needed/
http://www.dearwendy.com/topic/uncle-father-update-test-has-been-done/
Gosh, Hannah, this is like completely the Twilight Zone! You and “Tiffani” live in THE SAME TOWN in Tennessee! Can you believe it??? You’ve got to get in touch with her, this is just too crazy, OMG! I’ll give you her email address so you can connect.
Facepalm ?♂️
HannahDecember 26, 2018 at 1:17 pm #813196I give up on trying to prove myself to people who don’t even know me. IF I happened to be the same person, why would you even care? The other woman was bashed like crazy over what she believed in. Let’s say I’m crazy woman…maybe I’m really worried that my dead son is the real father. I wanted to believe that my alive son was the father because I thought that he would change for the better. He’s in and out of jail, was hooked on narcotics, has a history of abuse. I’m really worried for my granddaughter, the same one that I’m too afraid to meet because I hold resentment toward the mother. I’ve let time pass and I’ve let my pride get the better of me. It’s true…I’m the same woman. I’m worried for this little girl because he has asked me how to go about getting visitations set up. I don’t think that he’s mentally ready for the responsibility of being a parent.
I’ve thought this over and I want my son to redo this test. The mother did try to tell my son that she felt like my dead son was her daughter’s father. I so wanted it to be my alive son in hopes that she might save his life. I now see that my son doesn’t need to even be around kids. He’s unstable and needs help. I figured that by coming on here and playing like I was someone else, than I wouldn’t be bashed. I’m sorry but I do need some advice. I love my son but I will admit that he’s in need of help. Please someone help me. I forced my son to take this paternity test but I now deeply regret it. The mother holds true to her word that there’s a month difference between being with my sons. She claims that the conception dates don’t add up with him. I might not be ready to meet my granddaughter but I don’t want my son having custody of her either.
KateDecember 26, 2018 at 1:26 pm #813198Your son beats women, and potentially kids too.
He’s probably not the father, and if he is, YOU don’t want him in the child’s life and neither does her mother. LEAVE THIS ALONE. Stay out of this poor woman and kid’s business. Look after your own son. Forget this paternity thing.
HannahDecember 26, 2018 at 1:28 pm #813199I’m Tiffani. I didn’t want to post as myself because I thought that I would get bashed again. I want my son to redo this test before he does obtain legal rights. If you go back and read my last post you might understand where I’m coming from a little more.
HannahDecember 26, 2018 at 1:35 pm #813203He’s currently on house arrest but he’s getting off in two weeks. All he can talk about is finally meeting his daughter. The mother is trying to keep her distance and hasn’t been answering his calls. She always has an excuse ready. I know that she’s wising up to my son and I’m tired of hearing his rants about how she’s trying to keep him from his daughter. My son has explosive anger issues. I know that this little girl would be better off without him.
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