Update: “Bittersweet” Responds
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It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from “Bittersweet” who wrote in a couple weeks ago about her disappointment in the failure of her Catholic friend, as well as of her brother’s family (who are also not Jewish), to acknowledge Jewish holidays to her. “Once in a blue moon I might receive a Chanukah card,” she wrote. “Holidays are bittersweet.” Her update below.
I’ve decided that I won’t be inviting my in-laws over for latkes during Hanukkah. L-o-n-g story! But, I may invite my Christian neighbors and friends.
I have a very dear friend who I will see on or about Christmas day. She lives in Nevada and we haven’t seen each other in years. We met in college, back in the 70s, and we have remained close and in touch all these years. Because I know that we’ll be together, I’m not dreading the holiday season this year. I have something to look forward to.
Good! It’s always helpful to have something to look forward to. And it’s great you’re cultivating a friendship with a woman from the synagogue. Maybe invite her over for Hanukkah latkes!
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Yeah… somehow I think one might have a much better time celebrating Jewish holidays with people that are actually — wait for it — Jewish!
Eh, most of my friends are not Jewish. Its just the reality of my area (not a lot of jews) and social circle. I am a synagogue member, but there aren’t many people in my age group/life-stage.
But my friends are fun and we still throw a heck of a Hanukkah party even if there are only 3 jews in attendance. Turns out fried food is universal.
There’s so few Jewish people in my hometown that Chinese restaurants are all closed on Christmas. I know because we didn’t transition properly one year once cousins were no longer kids and my little sis had in-laws. We called everywhere.
Anyway, my BIL is Jewish. We’re Catholic. I’ve truly enjoyed learning about his religious traditions. This year, I went over for Rosh Hashanah. People generally enjoy others company and celebrations and feasts.
Also my coworker makes it a point to invite non-Jewish friends to her family’s feasts.