Dear Wendy
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Sarah b, you need professional help. And I mean that in the kindest way, I do. You are not reacting to any of this in a normal, rational way. Something is really, really off with you.
No dairy aversions (thank God, because, ice cream), and hot chocolate with extra marshmallows sounds perfect!
I actually didn’t sleep well last night at all, but not because I’m so mean. Or, hell, maybe it was. Maybe it was karma getting me back in the form of my 3-year-old crying all night long because he was cold and having random growing pains and nightmares. And maybe it was karma getting me back in the form of a sudden and almost-violent wave of nausea that lasted too long and has left my throat super sore today. And maybe it was karma getting me back by freezing my pipes so that I have no hot water today and couldn’t shower this morning. But anything’s possible, so I’m going to dream big and hope the the nausea subsides for good, my son has had a great morning on a playdate with his baby sitter, and that we have hot water in time for me to shower before tonight’s episode of The Bachelor.
It’s true, sometimes life isn’t fair, but if you dream big, anything is possible!! Even being able to stick your whole hand down your throat without gagging.
No, not punking us. She even asked me a couple times to delete this thread because she got the advice she was seeking, which made me wonder what she would do if a customer at Golden Corral asked for their money back because they got the meal they came to eat.
For the record: I will delete threads on rare occasions when someone’s anonymity is genuinely compromised or someone’s personal safety is in danger. But deleting a thread because someone doesn’t like the meany commenters giving mean advice and calling her out for living in a fantasy world? No. I did tell her she was free not to continue reading the thread. But that’s sort of like telling her she was free to stop fantasizing about her boss divorcing his wife, whom he’s happily married to, and pursuing a healthy relationship with her.
Someone pass the popcorn, please.
Sarah, I’m just curious why you think all the commenters here are stupid? What would someone have to say to you to be considered “smart”?
Love this, thanks for sharing!
This is so gratifying to hear, thank you.
Thanks, everyone! This is interesting.
@nico_lette After 8 months, it’s not too early to ask your boyfriend whether he sees a future with you. Just ask him. If he freaks out, well, better you know where you stand now before you invest anymore time and energy. If he doesn’t, then you’ll have a better sense about whether you’re on the same page. I don’t know what you don’t want to have a “big talk.” If you want marriage and kids in the forseeable future, wouldn’t it be advisable to find out if the guy you’ve invested 8 months with wants those things in the foreseeable future too? Don’t be ashamed of wanting what you want. It’s a disservice we women make to ourselves.
Thank you for this, everyone. It really made me feel good.
