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I shaded Robert pages back for the gig work/spinning it as working for himself instead of “the man.”
I don’t think there’s anything wrong with gig work. But you definitely shouldn’t say you own your own business and actually be delivering food for grub hub, Uber eats or doordash.
LOL, eisen who? Just kidding.
And thank you for the birthday wishes.Seriously, imagine the stuff that lady probably put up with and he had the balls to dump her for not caring about money enough. Ha!
Yeah, please don’t be showing up to dates in your comfortable teal or red dress shirt like a ‘90s Atlantic City magician.
I just had to. I am getting older (38 in about a week!) but I am hip to some current media and celebrity stuff.
I know that sexy hairy pose of his and figured it was an apropos “attractive man” to compare Robert to, considering his outdated ideas about so many things.
I don’t think you fundamentally understand what brings two people together AT ALL but it’s not chemistry that you aren’t having with these women who won’t give you second dates, Robert. You are SCARING women away. We’ve told you this repeatedly for two years. Part of it probably has to do with the many red flags we’ve listed off for you like, oh:
1) not having any friends
2) not having had any relationships in a decade+ (Isn’t it close to 20 years now?)
3) you deliver things for a living, which shows a lack of focus, career acumen, goals, skills
4) the hobbies/Christmas obsessions
5) your not-buried-very-deep anger towards womenPlease stop fucking around for more years and go to a professional therapist, counselor, clergyman, etc consistently for at least six months. Please. We can’t help you. We can’t tell you why women don’t like you. We can’t tell you why you don’t seem interested in maintaining relationships with friends or making new ones. It seems so logical to start there, making a friend. A first step to trying to date and have a real adult relationship.
It’s absolutely ludicrous for you to keep ragging on your only relationship that you ever had, Robert. She wasn’t as motivated, disciplined, financially focused for you, huh? And where did your motivation, focus, and discipline lead you? To a live of wealth and happiness? Come on. And then for you to even bring up a thought exercise and then choose the woman with better looks…wow, Robert. You sure are feeling pretty high and mighty to be so judgmental to other women in their size and looks. I remember your profile pics, Robert. You are no Burt Reynolds.
Robert, you talk about all these things like you have so much experience and know exactly how things work for you, and women.
But yet you fundamentally don’t know what chemistry is.
Good luck, Robert. I really wish you would take this to a therapist.
I think I am the one who recently said he delivers food because that is what I remember although I think he used to maybe deliver other things, too? Not sure.
My first step up was completely someone else noticing me for my personality and deciding I had leadership potential. It was all chemistry and charisma. And luck, really.
It’s just sad to me that you can’t listen to us and go and keep seeing a therapist. It’s been probably close to two years now, right? And you’re nowhere near understanding the idea of what chemistry feels like with another person. Two years of therapy could have led to some real growth or understanding of yourself. You still just don’t want to get it, you just want to argue and be right about how the world and dating and men and women work, even though you have limited and very dated experiences with women yourself.
People who work regular, cogs in the wheel jobs also have a steady income, Robert. They probably don’t deliver food for another company that doesn’t even offer them any benefits, and consider themselves their own boss. Last I knew, you were a gig worker. And renting a car to deliver food. Incredible that you consider other people inferior to you and your career.
I wonder how the women feel when they discover you don’t own your own business or work for yourself but deliver food and Uber or whatever it was.
Robert just doesn’t fundamentally understand how human people make and have relationships and interact. He doesn’t have many, if any friendships, right, Robert?
How someone appears and stacks up as far as “looks” go is not the attraction you feel for a specific person. You understand that, right?
Are you attracted to every woman you go on a date with, Robert? You’ve had chemistry with every single one?
I don’t even know what purpose trying to give you advice is, since you rarely take it and are arguably in the same place you were, more or less than what, two years ago?
Therapy, Robert. Have fun figuring out yourself in therapy.
