anonymousse

There’s a pandemic. You’re not supposed to be seeing people and hanging out in groups.

Regardless, our normal is spending most nights at home. Luckily, we have a lot of friends that come over. But- and this might shock you- we enjoy each other. I’m my husbands favorite person. He’s mine. I find him endlessly interesting and entertaining. He’s funny. If anything, I wish I spent more time with him. Crazy, right?

He has male friends and I have to force him out the door to go hang out with them.

Why is it that your husband has only one friend? This woman? And what about your friends, Tina? What do they think about this situation? How about your family?

And yeah, thanks for the reminder- I had totally forgotten that she made a fake ultimatum and he asked for a divorce. Why on earth are you staying with him? He’s mean to you. Forgetting for a moment all the other shit, he doesn’t even make you happy.

There is a better life out there waiting for you. I wish you had the courage to take the next step for yourself.

You’re so naive and honestly, you know that you are unhappy in your marriage. You KNOW he’s cheating on you. And I’m not sure why you’re still trying to pretend like that’s not what is happening. That’s why you’ve written in so many times about the exact same problem. The advice is never going to change. The issue is still the same.

His power of manipulation over you is pretty amazing. He’s had multiple affairs and has figured out the magic to gaslighting you so good that you now defend him. Incredible. It’s like Stockholm syndrome.

If you truly believe him, go out with him every time. Swing by where they say they are going to be. Does he share his location on his phone with you? Ask him to.
Make a new, attractive male friend. See how he reacts. You and I and everyone else on this forum knows there is more going on. I bet all of his coworkers and friends do, too. He’s probably bragging about how you’re cool with it. And it’s not because men and women can’t be friends- I have friends of the opposite sex. It’s because friends don’t see each other 3 date nights a week. No one has that kind of time on their schedule unless it’s a sexual relationship.

Yeah, at this point you are wasting time you could be spending getting yourself well, meeting better men, possibly even meeting the real person you should be with. It is you that is holding you back from a more fulfilling and happy life. Being alone would be better than this. You are desperately clinging to a sinking ship of your marriage. It’s very, very sad to see this post and know you’re still in the exact same place you were months, probably years ago. This isn’t the first time he’s cheated and now he’s pushed you so far with his manipulations that you are still trying to silence the gut feeling that’s telling you exactly what you know to be true.

That icky feeling is your gut telling you they are fucking. Because they are. You know it, we know it, everyone knows it. He’s just somehow convinced you not to trust your own instincts.

I know I shouldn’t be shocked at that, but I am.

And what happened to him was truly terrible. Blood was pouring out of his ear.

There have been so many white agitators. I have seen video of tiny white girls who look like they are teenagers throwing bricks through the windows at a Minneapolis Police Station in the middle of the day. There were a lot of white men with baseball bats and literally axes patrolling neighborhoods in Philly last night. And so many others.

And the tear gas employed by Trump to move peaceful protesters! I just… I’m not religious but he used “a bible” as a prop. That’s in quotes because someone asked him if it was his, and he said, “it’s A Bible.” After tear gassing a peaceful group to get out of his way.

It’s actually incredible how much one man and his team of goons have destroyed this country in four short years. I hate using sexual organs as insults, but he is the biggest fucking pussy. He hid in a bunker the night before and shut off all the exterior White House lights. He’s a disgrace. I’m so heartbroken and angry.

America is in literal and figurative ashes. He’s supplied the gasoline and matches. He can’t supply any states with much needed medical supplies, but he can start a war.