anonymousse

This is why women back off away from you, slowly and with gentle motions. because you can’t take repeated hints, and you don’t even respect her voice when she tells you she cannot give you what you want. She thought she liked you, you cuddled and texted from afar. You never had sex, and when you did get more intimate, things cooled.

Then you started pressing her for reasons.

BECAUSE SHE ISNT THAT INTO YOU. She told you that, in different ways. Many, many ways.

Since you won’t respect her words and back off (this past week hardly counts) this is when you are slipping into creepy territory, into totally disrespectful territory.

You said something has been missing with all the other women who have friend zoned you. I have to imagine it’s this very thing.

Generally, people want to have passion for someone before they have sex and have an actual relationship. You were not dating. You never went on dates. She never called you her bf. She liked to get drunk at parties and have someone to cuddle..
until you made it weird. Until she realized she didn’t like you that much, and then you kept pressuring her and are trying to come up with reasons why she is doing what she is. She’s exercising her freedom of choice and is interested in another man, MORE than you.

I’m sorry you think we are being rude, but about 10 women and at least one man are telling you that you need to leave this alone. The truth sometimes hurts. We’d are trying t9 help you NOT be THAT GUY.

You are clearly in school, go book an appointment with your school counselor.

Women are not some mystery being that you need to decode. She doesn’t like you as much as you like her. She’s been clear about that. Respect her words as you would a mans.

This is a joke, right?

When a woman tells you she’s not interested, and doesn’t feel a spark, you leave her alone. Move on. She doesn’t owe you any further explanation or “honesty.” She’s told you she is not into you.

If you proceed with this, you will be labeled a creep and will be the receiver of a restraining order or two.

Fuck.

Anita,
Empathy and respect, are truly things I admire in other humans… but what about the woman/object of affection in this post? Your advice to this man was to NOT respect what she said, and to push her boundaries further.

The ability to accept criticism constructively, and reflect on your own opinions and challenges to them is really just a sign of a well rounded, and mature person.

It’s this adamant divisive (I’m right, and your opinion isn’t because it doesn’t match mine!) that shuts down important conversations that lead to better understanding.

Cheers,
Anonymousse

PS I would buy a WWKD? Or a DWKD bracelet.

I’m touched she called ME a troll. ♥️

Guys, it’s mimosa. Nuff said.

If you won’t talk with him, why would you expect him to come visit or talk to you? Come to your senses about who and how he is. Clearly nothing he does is right. After awhile, people stop trying.