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I really doubt she purposefully moved into your sight line…maybe she was, I don’t know…working out?
You have built this up in your head, methinks.
I’m sorry this hurts, but it’s true he’s just not that into you. I moved to a new city to pursue a man who didn’t really want to do long distance. Because I knew I loved him and wouldn’t be happy without him. We weren’t even in a relationship! There was no guarantee he’d even date me once there. (I did have a job in place, and nothing tying me to where I was living, though.)
Yes, I will say that’s not an advisable move, and I’d probably never tell someone to do that, but people move heaven and earth to be with the people they love. That’s the whole point of living, right? They’d even sleep in your perfectly reasonable loving accommodations. He’d turn away $7,000, $8,000 or even $15,000. He doesn’t love you. I’m sorry.Wow, Jody.
You should try actually talking to your partner and ask him for the money and for the support, etc instead of magically expecting people to just fall in line and do what you want.“This cousin of hers met a guy, dated six months, got married and had a baby within their first year of marriage. Looked perfect everywhere. Baby is two months old and she just found out he is addicted to cocaine and heroine.”
I’m sorry, but without the full story- that she knew him for years, how was I to know that?
It seems pretty logical not to marry someone you barely know. I’m sorry if my comment offended.Well, don’t marry someone you don’t know well. Problem solved.
No, it’s really not that hard. That’s when you know it’s right, IMO. When it’s easy and simple and makes sense. Just be honest and communicate and respect your partner and you can handle pretty much anything.
Eating saltines or similar crackers very slowly was my go to.
Eat ginger, real ginger candy or real ginger beer. Peppermint tea or even some essential oil can all help with nausea.
Cherries, whipped cream, candy.
That was at a bachelor party my male friend attended at the club, and lived to tell the tale. They hired a private area for 10 or so guys. Fun times.
My ex’s brother was a rep (kinda) for an oil company. He’d travel to every site they were drilling and take all the guys out, sparing no expense. You can imagine how nasty it gets when you have an unlimited budget and a bunch of horny guys.
There are a lot of people who would do a lot of things for money.Many of the activities in champagne rooms are what most people would consider cheating..like eating food out of a dancer’s…I’ll let y’all imagine the rest.
It’s okay that she doesn’t want him to go. It’s okay that she is upset that he lied multiple times to her about his actions and views. I’m kinda of surprise at all the people jumping up to defend a man who has lied to her this many times. It’s amazing how far y’all reach to blame her for being upset that he lied to her so many god times! She isn’t overreacting. And this isn’t something women just HAVE to accept about men.
I also think this guy is not the right one if he lies to you over and over to “spare your feelings.” He deceived you, he claimed to be a feminist who’d never do that and made you believe untruths about him. He’s a liar.Well, the behavior he is lying about, going to strip clubs, is not in the past, she says he has a few friends getting married and will have the bachelor’s parties at strip clubs.
It does indeed sound like this subject is important to her.
