I have a MAJOR crush on my married boss!
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Sarah BFebruary 15, 2015 at 10:11 pm #335013
I have a dilemma, so I just started working at Golden Corral and I have a major, super, strong crush on my married boss. I know nothing will ever come out of it because he seems to be very happy with his marriage as of right now. I’m just a piece in his game and I know he doesn’t care about me like that at all but I just cannot get him out of my mind! It’s literally driving me nuts and I don’t know what to do! :/ I try so hard to just keep my mind busy and not think of him but its so hard to just stop thinking of him. I really want to stop but I don’t know how. I mean he is my MARRIED BOSS!!!! I really wish something could happen but at the same time I know I would feel a little guilty if I was the cause of it or if it didn’t work out. I have constant thoughts about him and sometimes fantasies about what could happen. I need advice and fast!!! Please help!!
Sarah
You need to get him out of your head, like yesterday. Nothing can happen. Nothing will happen. You need to get him out of your fantasies. Since you say he’s still in your head, that tells me you’re not trying hard enough to get him out of there. Focus on school, focus on a new hobby, whatever it takes. There’s no way you will be with him, so don’t waste your time.
I know you’re trying, but you really just have to stay busy. Any time you catch yourself thinking about him, read a book or go study or work out or something. Flirt with guys your own age (I’m assuming you’re younger?), go on dates, kiss a lot of guys. You HAVE to treat this like he is unobtainable…because he is. The fact that you say “you know no one knows what could happen in the future” tells me that you still think there might be a slim chance. In order to quash that feeling completely, go on lots of dates, stay busy, everything I mentioned above.
I can see how what I said above might have come off that way but I’m seriously not trying to be mean here. He’s unobtainable and that’s all you really need to know. Like I said, go on dates with other guys to get your mind off of him if you need to. Flirt like crazy. Start a new project or whatever. As long as that thought of “well, sometimes people leave others to be with someone unexpected”, is on your mind, you won’t be able to move on from this.
your responses don’t seem like you actually want advice. do you want someone to say just wait and see, he might just leave his wife? if you want to cause drama and surround your life with drama by all means keep thinking he might leave his wife and that the two of you might have a chance. but ask yourself if that was even a possibility do you really want a relationship that starts that way? my advice would be to read lyra’s advice and follow it.
February 15, 2015 at 11:41 pm #335023I do want advice && I am taking both of yours advice. I’m definitely not gonna try anything. But I can still look.
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