I have a MAJOR crush on my married boss!
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My job is more important than a guy. And yes cleopatra was right if he left me for his wife or they got a divorce ppl would talk bout me like crazy. I get it
How bout go fuck yourself?! I am acting rational && I’m not the one who needs help here you do. You’re very rude && I don’t need to agree with advice just bc I asked for it. And anything could happen in any situation so thanks
Maybe we can turn this into a drinking game. Every time Sarah b says she’s done (but comes back to tell us we’re all stupid) we take a shot! It’s a stat holiday here in Ontario so afternoon drinking on a Monday is totally allowed!
I was also thinking about BGM, where is he?? Mark, we need you!
Sarah, you seem like a truly lovely and thoughtful person. Any happily married man would be crazy stay in a stable marriage when he could have an eloquent and sweet girl like you.
Oh no! MissDre I’ll have to wait until I get home to play. Think we can keep this going for another 4 hours? I have to go to Zumba first too 😉
I agree with Wendy. Sarah, here at DW we frequently advocate for advice seekers to pursue therapy when necessary, it can be an extremely useful tool and many of us have gone at one time or another. Your crush seems to have crossed the line into unhealthy, and your insistence that it might somehow come to fruition is unhealthy. Additionally, it is never, and I mean never, acceptable to respond to someone with the language you have used. Something is wrong, and a therapist can help you figure out what that is and how to move past it.
To add to what the others have said…around page 4 there were some sarcastic comments. However, you started complaining about our being “mean” much earlier than that. What do you consider mean? Just the fact that you were being told something that you didn’t want to hear?
Truly, I feel sorry for you. Despite your foul language and wild accusations, I do wish you nothing but the best. It strikes me as terribly sad that someone would write in for advice and then be so hostile to those who are doing their best to help that person.
Good luck.
This is… interesting. I’ve been following it most of the morning. I needed some entertainment. I’m sore and tired and stressed out today.
Wendy – One thing I found that helped after a really long and/or obnoxious bout of nausea was pineapple in the juice. Seems counter productive, but it helps with the acid the burns the throat and even when it’s not “cold” it feels cold, so it soothes the sore throat. I had a night like that the day of my best friend’s baby shower a few weeks ago (ok, so that one was like 70% pregnancy, 30% gorging on sugary treats). The pineapple made a HUGE difference. My midwife recommended it because I have to drink a glass of water in the morning with my thyroid medicine and that usually didn’t go well for me.
Sarah B – I think you should pursue this with your married boss. Only good things can come from it. You’ll get what you want, you’re boss, and you won’t have to fantasize about him anymore. Maybe he’ll even get you pregnant (because let’s face it, all good DW letters involve a pregnancy). Then he’ll leave his wife for you. Then he’ll let you quit working to be a stay at home mom with your white picket fence and cute little house. Then once you rely on him completely for everything, he’s going to leave you for that other Golden Corral waitress who is younger, hotter and smarter than you…and you’ll be homeless, have no job skills and a baby…
