I have a MAJOR crush on my married boss!
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StephFebruary 16, 2015 at 4:22 pm #335275
The definition of fantasy: the faculty or activity of imagining things, especially things that are impossible or improbable.
The definition itself says impossible. If you want to fantasize about being with him, do that. Fantasies are okay. Lord knows I fantasize about things and people (Ryan Reynolds anyone?), but I also know they won’t ever happen. So I have a boyfriend and friends and real life things that aren’t fantasies.
Fantasize away, seriously. But in doing so it won’t help you MOA from your crush to find someone who is single that you can actually be with. That’s why everyone was giving advice on how to move on and get him off your brain, so you can get over your crush and be with someone who is single NOW. Even if he did leave his wife it would be years before he would be emotionally available to be with you.
bondbabeFebruary 16, 2015 at 4:25 pm #335278Yes I would say it your face! I’m not some delicate flower nor am I someone who asks for advice and then constantly shoots it down because it wasn’t what I wanted to hear. And I don’t then rag on others, get all butt-hurt and start calling names. Besides, didn’t you say you weren’t going to read any more of this? You got the advice you ASKED for, CHOSE to ignore it and then went a lashing-out pity party.
And I’m glad I made your day, because you sure as sh!t made mine!
@booknerd – well, my avatar does have “whore” in it, and there were all those dudes in the late ’70s, early ’80s, but I don’t think that made me a whore. But what exactly is the definition of someone who gets paid for sex; I know prostitute makes the cut, does whore? Or is that slut? Maybe I wasn’t whore-ish, just slutty.
@honeybeenicki – I’ll ask my husband too — but I would imagine he would because your gag reflex constricts your throat muscles.February 16, 2015 at 4:27 pm #335281Why are you so violent and vindictive? We were all trying to help you.
February 16, 2015 at 4:30 pm #335286I’m craving a cinnamon roll. I want a big fat one. And then I want to peel back the outer layer and bury my face in its warm gooey center. And then I want a tall glass of cold milk.
Sarah b anthony, do you think you could make that happen for me?
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