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i mean it’s good that you’re finally seeing that. the thing is he’s always been unattainable. always. like someone mentioned before figure out what qualities he has (beyond looks) that you find attractive and look for them in people who are available right now without x, y and z happening first.
Correction – options between you and your boss are zero.
You don’t have zero options. You may not see them because of this intense crush (been guilty of that myself), but they are there. And I think that once you recognize that and open yourself up to them this crush will naturally fade away.
@Kate I have a morning coffee and Topamax. It is off-label for chronic pain, although its more typical use is for schizophrenia. I read Britney Spears was on it during her umbrella-swinging days. Then I have a boatload of as-needed pain meds for when the Tope doesn’t cut it. At night I sometimes need an ativan to get to sleep since I seem to get this weird anxiety the minute I lay down, no matter how tired I am.