there seems to be a disconnect between you saying you don’t want it to happen but you sometimes wish it would. your reactions to people’s advice make it seem like you actually wish that it would happen more than is healthy. people do get divorced sure, but it sucks. and you really need to let go of that thought process of it happens if you ever want to get over this guy.

who would play you in a movie addie pray? have i ever mentioned there is a dodge dealership here called addie harbor dodge? makes me think of you every time i see it or hear a radio ad.

Amy Poehler would play me if anyone is interested.

Stop reading and responding. You control your own life, actions and reactions.

Welllll, thank you for asking, jlyfsh. Someone with dark hair, someone with glasses, … I’ll say Tina Fey! And then she’d naturally have to consult with me to understand my life, and then naturally we’d become best friends. I can’t wait!

so leave the forum if you’re done? why does it affect you so much that people want to keep discussing things on this thread especially if it’s not directly related to your question?

also firestar’s thread is terrifying. that is the bad place anything could happen can lead.

A really young Owen Wilson would play me if they managed to somehow straighten out his nose.