I have a MAJOR crush on my married boss!
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Sarah B, I’ve steered mostly clear of this thread, but I hope that you listen to some of the recent postings. Especially this one from bostonpupgal:
“It’s important that you get your emotional health in order, including your depression, self esteem, decision making, and social skills. Once those things are in order the other things should come into place more easily. Honestly I’m not sure that trying to date right now is even a good idea considering what you’re describing: severe depression, hopelessness, difficulty with others, etc. not to mention this fixation on your boss. It may be that you need more therapy or a different kind in conjunction, you should definitely have a medical doctor involved as well and try some medications. It just seems clear that you need more help than you’re getting.”
Please look inward first for happiness. External relationships will suffer if you don’t first and foremost love yourself.
Umm stop talking shit bout my therapist k thanks asshole. And another thing don’t call me ugly saying “ugliness” wtf. And I never said I won the thread jerk off god right now I’m dealing with other shit
Nobody is calling you ugly. This isn’t about your physical features. It is your behavior that’s ugly.
I’m wondering why you reacted so differently last night compared to today. Sure BGM can come off a little harsh but everyone else is just bringing up a concern. Your language and reaction to people on this thread is what the problem is. There is a way to react to people when they are saying something you disagree with that does not involve calling them names. When you call people names and react like that people lose respect for you. Which is sad.
You show poor behavior by the way you talk to people on this thread. You call people names and lash out easily. Angry, irritable behavior like that is related to depression, but not limited to. It is possible to modify behaviors, even seemingly involuntary ones, through targeted practice. It takes self-awareness, help, and effort which is what people here are encouraging.
If your depression causes you to react in the way you have done at times in this thread that is something you need to learn to control and change. Depression is not an excuse for that.
“Wow somethin I can’t help”
Sarah, the thing is, you CAN help yourself. And many people have offered advice on how you can help yourself. If you allow your depression to define you and dictate your actions, inner happiness will always be out of reach.
Please reread what Lyra, Convexed, and bostonpupgal had to say. They were kind, compassionate, and insightful in their comments.
Well good thing I don’t care if any of u lose respect for me bc I don’t even know u and frankly don’t want to. And I lashed out ok bc u attacked me which I said though I overreacted. And what ur calling me a liar? I do have fucking depression never said it wae an excuse get it right
No I didn’t say you didn’t have depression. I said you can’t use your depression as an excuse for poor behavior. Two very different things. I was not attacking you in my comment and I was not just talking about us losing respect for you. But, if that is how you treat people who give opinions different from you in your every day life, they will lose respect for you as well.
