Updates

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing today. After the jump, we hear from Blind-Sided, whose boyfriend sent her a slew of nasty drunken texts, threatening to cheat, after he learned that she shared a bed with two platonic friends during a recent snowstorm. “Since then, he has been texting apologies periodically, has said that I did nothing to deserve that treatment and that the threat to cheat was an empty threat. Is this a red flag, or a fluke, and how should I move forward from this?” After…

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing today. After the jump, we hear from “Feeling Dragged Down,” a young woman who was afraid to dump her boyfriend because he was bipolar and super depressed after a job loss and a series of bad luck incidents. “I would feel so guilty breaking up with him right now, but I’m also feeling really bogged down staying in this relationship that isn’t working.” After the jump, find out if she’s still with him and how she’s doing today.

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing today. After the jump, we hear from “Living With Regret,” who was nervous about telling her new boyfriend about the misdemeanor she got a couple years ago when she took the blame for her then-boyfriend’s marijuana possession. After the jump, find out what happened when she opened up.