I have a MAJOR crush on my married boss!

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  • February 16, 2015 at 10:21 am #335056

    “How do I stop constantly thinking about my married boss while still being allowed to constantly think about him?”

    LOL is all I have to stay.

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    monkeys mommy
    February 16, 2015 at 10:31 am #335057

    And if something DOES happen… it is far worse. It will not end well. I know many who have been there and done that.

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    Sarah b
    February 16, 2015 at 10:39 am #335061

    how would end worse?

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    February 16, 2015 at 10:41 am #335064

    Sarah dear, no one is trying to be intentionally mean. The things you first stated are incredibly hypocritical and dont really align. At all. It is ok to have a silly crush on your married boss- where you know it is innocent, but you say he is happy for now in his marriage…and that you are jsut another piece of his game. Duh, what? If he is nice and naturally flirty, then honestly, he is probably quite good at his job as a manager at Golden Corral. Cool off on your crush and stop fantasizing about breaking up his marriage.

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    Sarah b
    February 16, 2015 at 10:44 am #335066

    AGAIN I don’t want to break up his marriage but u are all too stupid to understand that. I just like him I don’t wanna be the cause of a divorce fuck

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    Sarah b
    February 16, 2015 at 10:45 am #335068

    Wish everyone would leave me alone now. I get the fucking hint to lay off ok? Now goodbye!

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    February 16, 2015 at 10:46 am #335069

    Sarah, I’m just curious why you think all the commenters here are stupid? What would someone have to say to you to be considered “smart”?

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    February 16, 2015 at 10:46 am #335070

    So what is your question then even? How to stop thinking about him? People have given you ideas and you don’t like the advice. What did you want to hear from people?

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    Sarah b
    February 16, 2015 at 10:48 am #335072

    Wendy I don’t think their advice is stupid. I just don’t agree with them all that’s all. And I just want the post off. Thanks

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    Sarah b
    February 16, 2015 at 10:50 am #335073

    And I’m listening to their advice but don’t need to agree with it all.

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    February 16, 2015 at 10:50 am #335074

    To me, you shouldn’t automatically strike him from your mind and feel guilty that you were attracted to him. Attraction is as natural as breathing and is grounded in evolution. I feel like on an instinctual level we are attracted to people who complement us in some way. The trick is figuring out why you are attracted to them before you act on the attraction.
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    Try to figure out what it is about him that you find so engrossing, sexy, etc. Is it because he seems like a stable family man and you want that? Does he seem just more mature than the guys you normally date? Is he nice and considerate and that really appeals to you? There has to be something that is subconsciously making an impression on you.
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    I think once you figure out what it is that is attracting you to him, you will be able to get your crush on him under control. You will realize it isn’t really him that you’re attracted to but a particular (or several) quality that he possesses then you can look for those qualities in men who are available to date you.
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    FWIW, I think all or most of us have been in similar situations and we are trying to guide you away from putting yourself into a bad spot.

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    Sarah b
    February 16, 2015 at 10:53 am #335076

    Yes I see what u mean thanks Cleopatra.

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