I have a MAJOR crush on my married boss!
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sissyFebruary 18, 2015 at 7:57 pm #336407
I have two younger brothers, one is soon to be 20 and the other soon to be 22, and I am soon to be 24. My 22 year old brother is less than 2 years apart from my youngest brother cause of his late birthday in November. When we were kids we did not get along. I definitely had anger issues and lashed out a lot. And that definitely affected our relationship. But my parents were adamant that we try and work things out because they both have strained relationships with their siblings and they didn’t want to see that happening with us. There were a lot of ups and downs with us though even as we got older. A lot of stuff happened that made it difficult to cooperate and communicate. I would call my youngest brother a bit of the black sheep in the family. He did some really stupid stuff as a kid (bullied, abused weed to overcome the pain from Crohn’s disease, and just general disobedience). My parents still struggle with my brothers to get them to be responsible and help around the house, as they live at home still (one is gone to college outside now and the other goes to a local college so can live at home for convenience). They all have their unique personalities, and qualities that are definitely the polar opposite of mine, I love them and appreciate them for their kindness and big hearts despite all the crap we went through. My parents did the parenting of not enforcing a lot of stuff on us because they didn’t want us to lash out on account of them and do worse stuff. My brothers both drank underage, went to parties, came home plastered, or high. So ya they learned but in some cases it could have been worse because my parents weren’t overbearing. I think our age difference was good, the biggest age gap is me and my youngest brother at 4 years. But now at our ages we can all relate a lot and be able to get along without being to out of sync life wise.
JodieBFebruary 18, 2015 at 7:57 pm #336408Another long time lurker like UKuLady who was inspired to comment by this thread.
I missed it all live due to time differences but wasted yesterday afternoon reading the first 50 pages and most of this morning catching up with the rest.
Quietly pleased that when future threads contain #anythingcanhappen && #dickchoking references I’m gonna be in on the joke. Is that dorky?
February 18, 2015 at 8:03 pm #336409My mom had 5 kids in 6 years. My brother and I are “Irish twins”, we were literally born in the same calendar year, just under 11 months apart. There are gaps of about 1.75 years between the rest of the kids. We all got along really well growing up. The three boys had some fighting among them – the oldest and youngest each always wanted to play with the middle one. My sister and I were really close. She grew away from the family as she hit highschool, I don’t know what happened. Some kind of anxiety or mental strain or something, from the way she talks about it. But she won’t really discuss it so we don’t know. The other four of us are still close though. I loved having so many siblings.
Me and my sister are 4 years apart. We didn’t really get along until I was 16 (not fighting all the time, just not friends). Neither of us really acted out and we were different enough that we didn’t compete much. She moved to my city after college and we have a pretty good relationship these days, and she’s going to be my MOH. From seeing my friends with their siblings, though, I really think 3 years is the sweet spot.
Guys – it’s not quite Choke on a Dick, but I think the sentiment is the same:
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LianneFebruary 18, 2015 at 10:14 pm #336430Yeah my brother and u are 20 months apart and were absolute terrors when we were younger. We fought like crazy – he once peed on me because I beat him in a race to the only bathroom at my grandmother’s house. But around high school we stopped fighting and started to become friends. Now he’s one of the closest people to me and was
My man of honor in my wedding. I think most siblings closer in age fight when they’re young. -
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