Interested in a gorgeous and highly popular guy at my college
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I am pretty used to flirting when it happens in small steps, but I have never flirted with a guy specifically to build up for an opportunity to sleep with him as early as possible, so I am not totally sure how things work in that type of situation.
I guess I will get a kind of natural feel for it when I actually get into that situation – hopefully next week – but it is a bit tricky to know how it will work right now before I have been in that situation.My guess is that I will probably do a lot of non-verbal flirting, and look for a chance to touch him while I flirt with him if he seems to be in the mood for that.
I guess it might also be a plus if I happen to wear clothes that trigger his curiosity some more, although it might be too much if I deliberately choose those types of clothes just for that specific situation.
But I guess I can pick some of my everyday clothes that happen to be an advantage for this situation – I will see what I do, haha.Well, I am typically quite shy myself, so this makes it a bit trickier for me to approach this guy compared to more outgoing girls.
He has caught me checking him out on several occasions, although I am not sure if he recognises this as interest.I guess I will end up telling him that he is very good-looking, and then maybe asking him if he wants to do something some day.
I am not sure if this is “to the point” enough so that he will know for sure that I am trying to sleep with him, but I guess I will give him some body language clues and things like that without thinking about it.Maybe try a more specific compliment, like something he’s wearing or his smile. And don’t say “someday.” But you’re on the right track.
Fwiw, I just asked my husband, and he’s like, “just have a conversation with him.” Lol. He said ask him if he wants to do something, and then you can “go on a date and bang.”
Haha, well I guess I will start a conversation with him, compliment him on his clothes or whatever else and try to make it as flirty as possible and look for an opportunity to touch him.
This will of course depend on how he responds to my approach, but I will probably notice pretty quickly if he is in the right mood”.
Then I guess I might invite him to “watch a movie this evening” or something like that – this would definitely give him a strong hint.I have noticed him glancing at my body a for a couple seconds on a few occasions when I haven’t looked directly at him, so that seems like a promising sign that he probably finds me attractive as well (I have got compliments on my appearance from other guys and from my friends, so hopefully he feels that same way).
We had sex today, during a 2-hour break, and I definitely DON’T regret it.
It was very obvious that he was experienced – he was 100% confident and comfortable with everything, and knew exactly how to turn me on, and he had basically mastered every single thing, as far as I could tell.
We had sex for probably an hour (he did use a condom, and I had taken birth control pills), and none of us seemed to ever have enough – we stopped pretty much because we had to go back to school, haha.I think that both of us agreed that this was a hook-up, although I wouldn’t mind having sex with him again.
I am not sure if he meets the same girls several times, but I will see what I do. ^_~One thing that I did notice about him was that he took it fairly easy a lot of the time;
he did take action in different ways, but I think most of our time consisted of me going cowgirl on him, and he lying back and enjoying that, but we enjoyed those parts a lot as well, haha.I don’t care about the sex, I’m curious how you went from never talking him to riding him like a bronco.
Yikes. I would guess because they are two young unattached people who both wanted to have a good time.
Get it, girl. You did what you wanted and you enjoyed it. And you were responsible about it. That’s great!
Well, I had made it pretty clear from the start that I was trying to seduce him, haha – I had removed a piece of clothing so that I walked up to him in a tight and somewhat low-cut top, and I flirted with him and told him that I found him very attractive, so I got to the point right away, so to speak.
Then a few minutes of flirting later he spontaneously said that I could follow him home the next day during the break if I wanted to, and even though I felt that this was probably rushed, I couldn’t say no to that opportunity.I will see what I do with this in the future, but I would certainly not mind another casual meeting like this.
