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She asked if she was in the wrong for leaving and not giving this woman half her money.
She didn’t ask for opinions about her choices.
I’d love to never read “cheezus crust” again.
Filing your taxes is super easy and fairly inexpensive. Never have anyone do that for you again. Take the money, give some to your mom, and make better choices.
Google benefits for yourself. Surely you are way below the poverty line. Section 8, foodstamps, etc get it all. Your kids deserve better.
You should consider adoption. There are all sorts of options available to you. You could be giving them a better chance. I know it’s not easy to think about that.
Look into social services.
Use protection. Go to planned parenthood and get on birth control. Stop having unprotected sex and cease communication with your ex as much as you can.
She wants to save the relationship, Oracle. Did you read that part?
But Trump is the fattest president we’ve had in recent history.
Wait, why is he in his thread?
Ruby wrote VAPID, not valid.
TLDR: no one needs a reason to want a divorce.
He wants a divorce. The legitimacy of his claim to want a divorce doesn’t need to be argued.
He wants one. That’s enough.
The end.Yeah, I’m sure her granddaughter is better off without her. In that way, you are correct Carolann.
I bet the mother actually knew which son the father is, and that’s why she wouldn’t do it previously. It’s a waste of time and money.
She was right to stay away from you as she was caring for an infant and baby. Look at all the viciousness inside of you. You can’t even be happy that you are now allowed into your grandchild’s life. You spite her by not meeting her.
Tiffani, you really need to get some help for yourself. Nothing was taken from you. She just gave you a gift, and you hate her for it.
And if you, just finding out that you have a grandchild, don’t want to roll out the red carpet for her…it’s no surprise to me your sons have had such issues. You are obsessed with your anger, obsessed with what’s been “taken” from you, so much so that you can’t even see the blessing in front of you. It’s really sad reading every single comment you make. You are wasting all your time being angry at the wrong person. Look in the mirror. You won’t even go meet your grandchild. That’s really messed up.
Carolann, yes, you were making assumptions. You still are. She isn’t hanging out with the uncle, he tells his mother they talk everyday, which I bet is bs. You seem to think addicts are great and honest people, which is really sad given your supposed history.
As for using a child to help an addict get better…that’s sick and truly delusional thinking.
Have you made an appointment with a grief counselor?
“Is it wrong that I was never honest with him?”
Yes!
Do you really think good relationships and marriages are built on deception? Come on!
“Gimme a f**king break…you have no idea!”
Well, what victim of drug addicts and traffickers WOULD advocate for children being thrown in as a motivational prop? How you can you regale us with those pretty horrible anecdotes about your family, and STILL insist a child should be thrust into the arms of an addict? It boggles the mind.
You say we run with little information, but Tiffani has given us the information! Both of her sons were drug addicted criminals. The one doesn’t want to go to the courts for a test…because of his prior convictions.
You are supposing and making up details, like this woman is an addict, too. That she purposefully kept the child from them and is now coming out just for the SS benefits.
If anyone needs to stick to the facts and not the “maybes,” it’s you AND Tiffani.
Tiffani, how’s the search for a grief counselor going?
You have no right to blame the mother. She was protecting her daughter. And you have EVERY right to be mad at both of your sons for their failings. Open your eyes to that. Get help. Your selfishness is about to ruin this great gift of a relationship with your granddaughter.
That’s exactly right, the addiction is always more important. Ask any child of an addict. Ask any partner.
It’s a nice idea that people suddenly turn their lives around when faced with more responsibility, but that what it is, a nice idea, not truth.
A child deserves to grow up in a loving family. Instead, she has a grandparent who won’t meet her, let alone look at her. That seems more necessary to point out than whether she knows exactly who her father is. She doesn’t have one. He’s not there. That’s what she knows. In the unlikely event the living brother is, he doesn’t care enough to even seek out a test, so I don’t even understand why you are blaming the woman and on a crusade to paint her in a bad light. He doesn’t even care enough to seek a test out. That’s how little this possibility means to him. Going to the courts would inconvenience him.
The mother knows who the father is. That’s not something that needs to be investigated. A DNA test was taken, her mother has said who her father is.
The child isn’t the one trying to force another test into this situation.
